Dear A, my suggestion is please don't hit your parents and society.

Answered by Ramakant , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:43 AM on July 15, 2008

so you love your mama ki larki,well if you both want to marry then you should help her in this matter and initiate the talk with your uncle about this if she is scared of doing it.since you have not mentioned your age i am taking it as you are a matured adult who knows what he intends to do because a lot of people mistake sexual attraction or ifatuation as love and take wrong decisions in life...so i would like you both to think over it properly in more realistic manner and try to see the reality also...if you both are sure about it then go ahead and talk to your parents about it,there is no point in holding back,it wont help you or her,ultimately you have to come out in open and face the sitaution and put your sincere efforts in resolving the issue.dont take any decision in hurry and without giving it much thought.

Answered by jerk , an ibibo Advisor, at 5:31 PM on June 30, 2008

i think u should marry with that gal.......

Answered by Madhulika , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:08 PM on June 28, 2008

hoz dat possible !!!????in north side ,mama's ki ladki is just like our sister?????

Answered by uday gupta at 12:29 AM on June 28, 2008

I think u n ur cousin should talk to ur parents. In hindus it is possible to marry with mama ki ladki. If u really love each other than u have to talk.

Answered by vishal gupta at 4:10 PM on June 27, 2008

Are yaar ja pyaar karne se pehle society ka khyal nahi kiya to abb kyun darte ho..go with gusto...you don't need to scare of this society at all...let me explain
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>you both can marry legally. There is no provision in any law barring this kind of marriage...
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Second & most important fact that u love her...Society is never going to take care of you, your life or your family...all they can do is comment...I can understand your worries regarding ur parents & her parents...ofcourse they wud resist outright..but then you both have to come up to the situation & make them understand your relation..
I am sure if you tackle them with wit they wud definitely understand your feelings(that's why god created them...) as they can't see their kids sad?

To sum up >>>>send the world to hell...go for ur love but make sure that she is able to withstand tough time...

Answered by Vicky Rana , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:45 PM on June 27, 2008

she need to scared becoz...... if she belongs to momdn family then that would be a problem bt in hindus...it is nt acceptable at all..... well u both need to understand...

Answered by Ravita Bhora , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:52 AM on June 27, 2008

DONT MARRY HER
WHO TOLD U , U NEED TO MARRY TO LOVE
JUST LOVE HER N FORGET IT

Answered by sadiq shaikh , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:51 AM on June 27, 2008

you shud do it

Answered by yash , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:25 PM on June 26, 2008

firstly why to be scared of the society...u havnt done any thing wrong...and in the case with parents firstly figure it out that whether u r family likes her coz she is u r cousin....and if they like her and tell them that u wud like to marry her....

Answered by Talha Sheikh , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:22 PM on June 26, 2008