the question my frend that u need to ask for yourself is - why is that you are gonna marry a person more older than you. do you both like each other. or is there any compulsion or is the marriage just for convenience. many questions do crop up in the mind. well, in case you love her and she loves you too, then why ask and why think, just go ahead and marry. but a word of caution - "do not regret later". a woman needs to be understood to be loved. and in case you have never understood her, then my frend, check if it is infatuation. cos many a times, infatuation takes precedence over love and people later regret. a woman is like a flower my frend, man appreciates her as long as she is in full bloom. once the bloom is over a man can appreciate her if he looks at her from his heart and not his mind. cos mind wavers and heart never wavers. My frend too has answered this question and she was forthright in her response. So in case you feel you like and more importantly love and feel that you can take care of her all your life, then go ahead and marry. Else, just forget it.
Answered by
Mike
, an ibibo Citizen,
at
10:18 PM on December 26, 2007