at the moment, how long has he not have a job, is his attititude hard working, or laid back? what happens if you get pregnant, where will you stay when you run away, how will you pay rent. Is he the commiting type, do you know that he has looked after his family, or has longterm friends? ask himthese things, assess him, from what you write, you can maybe try and get out of this fixed marriage but running away
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