Bibhu, you are a new member to Ibibo. You are welcome.
You want friendship. It is good that you are already a member of Ibibo. You would get lot of friends here. Friendship means a relation between two. Both should know and understand each other intimately. Both of you should be of similar interests, mutual respect. There should be confidence, security and trust in between you two.
In true friendship, there are feelings, caring and concern, loyalty, love, confidence on each other. In friendship, trust is the vital element. Without trust, true friendship cannot last long. When trust is lost, every thing lost.
On the other hand, girls are selective in making friendship. To become a friend with a boy, a girl first sees that she can have confidence, security and trust on him. Once she is confirmed and satisfied with all those traits in a boy, she expresses desire to make friendship with him; otherwise she shows her back.
My suggestion is, therefore, that you continue in this forum and see the activities of Ibibo like questioning, answering, opinion making, blogging etc. This is a good and helpful platform. You involve in those activities. Other members, boys and girls would be attracted to your activities and offer their friendship to you.
That will give you an option to select your friend. You need not bother much now.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
12:07 AM on October 12, 2008