Q i would like to propose a girl.she looks at very often& gives a smile , she talks to me lighltly, she is very reserved candate , dig me out big answer plz
The girl very often looks at you and gives a smile. You presume that she has an attraction toward you. That prompts you to propose to the girl. But before that you should confirm her mind. Because, her looking at you and the smile, may not be sufficient to prove her attachment to you. Moreover, only your interest towards the girl is not going to make the things happen. It is the girl also who should reciprocate her feeling towards you. She should be interested in you. Then only there is possibility of love. you will have to shun fear to express you feelings to the girl. Because, love grows in friendship. Friendship means a relation between the two. Both of them should know each other clearly, closely and intimately. They should talk and understand each other, have affection, attachment to each other and also respect.
Therefore, it would be good to confirm the mind of the girl. Since you have not met the girl, you should be little careful to proceed. Or collect all correct information about her, her outlook, taste, and social profile of her parents etc. At initial time, it is delicate. If all factors are favourable, you may proceed, but cautiously. Find out opportune time, convenient place and favourable resource. you can entrust some body among your trusted friends. He should be a trusted person and also preferably known to the girl. He may be able to collect indication of the girl towards you. Or otherwise, if you are confident enough about her attraction towards you, you can send a message to her directly also.
Because, girl’s decision in his case, would be final. Girls normally do not respond instantaneously. However, they play the role of their choice. If the girl is confident on you and trust, she may be your friend and love.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
3:36 PM on July 05, 2008