THIS IS BECAUSE OF OUR KARMA...IF BOLDNESS, STRAIGHT FORWARDNESS AND HONESTY IS WITH IN YOU,THER WILL BE NO HESITATION NO FEARNESS,...... THAT IS KARMA OF YOU HAVE TO OVER RULE IT...THIS MAY BE KARMA OF YOU OR HER....

Answered by laksh man , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:31 PM on May 02, 2008

hiiiiiiii......m younger than u........so i cant advice u........i m just suggest that............whenever u dont hv any bad intention towards gals...........means feel a gal as a boy..........n try to talk to her.....just as a simple frends.............no any feelings of attraction or bad intention............u can easily talk to any gal..........

Answered by apporv , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:08 AM on May 02, 2008

Actually, in our society there is a huge difference in between boys and girls till now. Our society does not take easily the friendship between boys and girls. That is why a separation has been automatically maintained since our childhood. Therefore, we feel a little bit hesitation to talk with a girl naturally. However, it is not the only case, for which we afraid for. Sometimes we lose our confidence, when we going to talk with a girl. It is happen due to unusual. However, that entire problem could sot-out by will power. It depends on practice. Rapidly talking with girls or trying to talk with girls may easily build the confidence for a frank conversation with girls.

Answered by Ashok , an ibibo Advisor, at 8:24 PM on May 01, 2008

It is our nature by birth. man is very insecure and restless....and it is women which play most impoartnt role because she knows your real fears and intellect !

Answered by Samuel , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:42 PM on May 01, 2008

hi rohit....if ur born n brought in a place were u never talked to gals n u went to boy's school then u might hav lack of confidence.but u can always change this...be confident ,if u dnt disrespect the gals thn i dnt think any gal will mind talking wit u....good luck

Answered by sami p , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:34 PM on May 01, 2008

Not all boys behave likes you. There is certtain fear in mind when the boy or girl approach each other as they do not how to start or what to talk during the first meeting. Be bold and when you go to talk to girl keep smiling, just say hallo by smiling her, and if she also smile at you then introduce yourself (Advice you to take the help of your friend or sister for first time if you lack the confidence to talk with girl).Go ahead all the best.

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 12:47 PM on May 01, 2008

* Remember this: the best thing to do is tell her directly. She will think you are brave for admitting it.
* Give her a compliment - girls don't like too many compliments, it starts to freak them out. A guy will become the total opposite of a crush.
* Say Hi in the hallway if you happen to walk by her. You will know whether or not she wants to say hi by her facial expression.
* If she looks like she would say hi back, then go for it. But if she doesn't, try another time.
* Be friendly but don't crowd her.
* When you smile at a girl it makes her feel great.
* After making friendly conversation with her, try holding her hand or maybe hugging her. You don't want to go too fast, though. Make sure you only go as far as she wants to.
* If you want to be a good boyfriend then help out with things, bags for example and things that she may find heavy.

Answered by Mohd Farooq , an ibibo Master, at 11:01 AM on May 01, 2008

It is man's basic instinct to have a problem talking to girls in the initial phase...but once you are used to it, then you wont feel so afraid or uncomfortable.

Answered by Anand Holla , an ibibo Specialist, at 12:03 AM on May 01, 2008

You get this kind of feelings you lack confidence.

Answered by LATIKA SAIN , an ibibo Advisor, at 10:52 PM on April 30, 2008

its lack of confidence... you yourself are saying that they too are human beings, so just go and talk to girls.. i am sure they wont eat you, they are not aliens.. so just be confidents and talk to girls, why to unnecessarily feel shy talking to them.initially you might feel it difficult but gradually with time you feel better and easy.

Answered by rakesh sain , an ibibo Advisor, at 9:20 PM on April 30, 2008