To be frank it is always thought that the smart and good looking guys are intelligent than that of the rest of the mob. So not only the girls but anyone would prefer one who is smart and good looking. In the interview boards also good looking guys or girls are considered intelligent over other compatriots. Moreover, any women would love to walk by the side of a person who is hansome and smart.

Answered by Baby Bora , an ibibo Advisor, at 7:24 PM on September 26, 2008

ITS WRONG SOMETIME

Answered by JOYANTA , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:42 AM on September 10, 2008

It is natural

Answered by rajasekaran at 12:01 PM on September 09, 2008

Dear , life is a mirror . what u think , in same way the boys also think . why girl look for so so quality in boys ? etc etc... Like you many boys , which lack many qualities that girls want but they are good in nature . so think positive . Think someone somewhere is waiting for you.



Have a wonderful and colourful life.....

Answered by Viral , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:09 PM on September 06, 2008

sweetheart, in any relationship looks are not important it is the nature and the mindset that is important... it is a wrong notion that guys only love good looking girls... in my experience, all my friends who are well settled in their careers have married girls who are not stunningly beautiful but nature wise they are all angels... I have spent time with their families and I know that good looks or no good looks what is important is understanding, love and care... thats what makes a good relationship...

Answered by sashank , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:10 AM on September 01, 2008

IT is true only smart and good looking girls are loved by guys mostley beacuse he is more attracted to external beauty than inner beauty. If the guy is sensible and intelligent he will look to her nature character simplicity and other values. Even the parents look for thier daugher in law a beautifuly and homely girl. But you must not neglect the other values and vitrues which is vital for a family life.

Answered by Sachin Samy , an ibibo Master, at 8:01 PM on August 29, 2008

Gayatri,
You are wrong. It is not that only smart and good looking girls are loved by boys.
Love is an element of psychological bond between two people (may be between husband and wife or between boy and a girl). It is based on knowing and understanding, sharing of feelings and commitments to each other. Love does not appear suddenly. Neither is it conditional one. Love does not lie on beauty alone. It is something more. The beauty may be a factor for immediate attraction. But love (true love) grows after knowing each other, sharing feelings, caring and mutual understanding. Love (true love) requires vision towards life, towards approach to life and acceptability to each other.
The prominent basics in love are confidence and trust. A girl always prefers a boy with confidence, security and trust to make friendship with him. Trust is the main pillar on which friendship or love (true love) lasts.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 2:41 PM on August 29, 2008

The laws of nature define boys like that only. They are not like girls, they do not like to see nature. All they need is to quench their belief for nice looks and a beautiful body. Hormones guide them more than their heart. But then, don't lose heart. This surge in chromosome is not same in all. It varies, and those who can better admire the nature of their female partners more than her looks and body are also present in hundreds.

So, there are boys who can cherish the girl's nature. Unfortunately, they are minorities in the crowd.

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 6:29 PM on August 28, 2008

This is because in this world every want o have or will be after the beautiful things only. Every one likes to wants to possess the best of best thing that is available in the world. Whateverever beautify people thing is the best but many a time it just the wrapper which is being beautify and inside it there is nothing as expected. Same way as you said many a time a beautiful girl may not be beautiful in her character as she seems to be on her look. But even then knowing this all the fact people runs after the beautiful girl without giving any importnace to girls behaviour or nature as such.

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 9:36 AM on August 28, 2008

well gayatri... i loved a gal to whom i didnt see till now.. can u believe it. n iam very much deep in love wid her.. i dont care abt how she looks but the main thing wat i see in her is her love n care for me.. i dont think k har ladka aisa hota hai kiun ki agar har ladka aisa hota hai to lakdiyo ki shadi bhi nahi hogi.. waise to mera pyaar jis ladki k liye hai woh kisi aur ki honey ja rahi hai... iska matlab tum shayad samajh sakti ho most of the gals cant take over to their parents n agree to their parents choice... pehle tum khud ko strong karo so tht u can tell ur parents tht u wanna marry tht special person who is gonna come in ur life as ur love.. waise to agar tum sochti ho ladka koi aye aur he loved u as much as u cant even believe aur tum time par usey kahogi k i cant marry u to phir socho kia beetegi us ladke par.. mujhe pata hai how much pain is there in tht.. through which iam goin now.. depression suicide tendacy ye sab hote hai so u need to think of future first wht is there for u then only u say tht why boys choose girls of tht type.. kiun ki most of gals who look gorgeous do not go for serious relationship.. the girls who r natural n good charactered unse koi baat nahi karta bcoz of the main reason which i told u.. n all i say is if ur commited once dont ever leave tht person ever.... or else just dont think of tht special person n stay calm n marry the choice of ur parents... kisi ka dil todna achi baat nahi hai... aur jab koi ladka serious pyaar karta hai to woh ladki se bhi ziada karta hai... hope u dont know abt tht... ladki to adjust karlegi magar ladka kabhi nahi.. n now iam in such position tht i am leaving each n everyone behind n just taking off to place where no one knows me... any ways think of it wht i told u.... be stron b4 u go for such kinda relationship

Answered by MuJJu<3 , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:53 PM on August 27, 2008