This happens to be one of the expectations from life.. That your partner will not cheat you in any way. Unfortunately it is an ideal situation. It doesn't always happen that way. If it does , enjoy the life, otherwise take it in its strides. It may be a cross you have to bear.You may also make positive amends and review the remote and immediate causes and arrive at a solution. Good luck.

Answered by 2TAIT , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:35 PM on November 16, 2007

In both situation person become weak and alone. But however Dear Jolie when you cheated after marriage its really painful because you have to live with such person and everyday you feel such pain ... but in case of cheated in love ... although you are get hurt but such pain can be get relieved if you get nice and understanding life partner. But cheated after marriage you wont get such option (Unless and until you choose the option of divorce). But my advice is be with positive frame of mind and should proceed ... I hope my reply gave the answer of your query ... if you still have any query please free to ask me ...

Answered by Lalit , an ibibo Specialist, at 10:33 AM on November 16, 2007

Take a deep breath! absorb and assimilate the pain deep down into the black hole of your centre to heal through it all and GET ON WITH LIFE - is what i would counsel to this one.

Answered by Why Worry , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:39 PM on November 13, 2007

Jolie , Its really painful to even think that way really i mean it ... but cheated b4 love u can still stand n start anew life .. but after marraige i think u shd take some actions this is wat i personally feel either a gal or a guy try to attract them by various ways .. give ur heart n soul so tht they start liking u .. may be than u can make him/her realize the meaning of true bondage and themeaning of marraige ..... just be positive .. but at times tought enough to face a harsh decision... HOPE IT NEVER HAPPENS TO ANYONE .. god bless all

Answered by addingvalues , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:49 AM on November 13, 2007

I feel very depressed to see that a person feels deprived or cheated in love. Ideally, love blossoms on some key understanding between the two people. It is very sad to note that the same does not stay when one is cheated and that the other person brags about or stays confident of doing it. This is a very deceitful act ... and I am definitely talking about all love - a softer feeling among humans.

Answered by idlemind , an ibibo Master, at 9:56 PM on November 12, 2007

wat will i say...nothing...tats life..u can't choose the one u love ,u just felt it...if ur married and have kids...just focus to ur kids...if ur still single and she/he is ur boyfreind...be thankfull...at least u know him her tat she/he is a cheater...

Answered by sweety rena , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:53 PM on November 12, 2007

Love is trust between two persons...but in marriage sometime cuple cant keep the love n trust after its become a contract between two persons and live life till end...someone miss the love and expectation they move to find different way of pleasures.

Answered by Vinu , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:54 PM on November 12, 2007

i wil feel pitty on those!n if Godforbid i m 1 of tem thn i wil leave tht guy n strt a new life!i jst wnt to enjoy my life wid gud deeds n wil b positive!wht ever my destiny wil b i wil fase tis challenge!B STRONG!

Answered by saadi , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:43 PM on November 12, 2007

Will be agree with me if I said they have bad luck in life? Or will you agree with me "they are the luckiest people in this world?". Yes they are the luckiest people since they will have the peaceful life since such partner have left themself and gone by themself.

Answered by siddhinfo , an ibibo Master, at 5:33 PM on November 12, 2007