you have to leave the relationship because its hurt you always.

Answered by Ravindra M , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:47 PM on October 06, 2008

Other trust, care and other you must expect Happiness and Confidence from your friendship. If any one of your friend is not loyal then you must keep certain distance from them, see that they should not come to know about your such behaviour, keep a watch on his behaviour and when you are sure about his not being loyal then break away the friendship from him.

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 9:12 PM on October 05, 2008

Loyalty can't be demanded from the friendship, it should be earned. If you are not faithful, don;t expect loyalty from your lover. In case you are faithful, make sure you don't curse your beloved for not being so. Let both realize that life is beyond the assumptions and need some commitment. The sooner the better.

My suggestion is that if she is not loyal, she is betraying the trust on you. Meaning that she is not expected to be with you for long. It will be wiser in case you move on. However, in case she is hesitant, do assure her that you are always with her.

Give her the confidence to come back to you ... and in case she does that, the sooner the better!

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 3:48 PM on October 03, 2008

the key to a successful relationship is not expecting anything at all from the other person !!!
The less you expect, the lesser are the chances of you feeling depressed when your exoectations are not met.
I do agree that wen u give something, you expect the same in return, but when you dont get it back, just ask yourself that are u still willing to be the persons friend and be there for him/her ?? If you feel yes, then go on and if you feel that the person is not worth your friendship, thn forget him and move on.
Follow your instincts and do what you feel best... rather... do what makes you happy !!!

Answered by Mehul Shroff , an ibibo Specialist, at 3:54 PM on October 02, 2008

listen friendship is not only about loyalty....frndship grows with time and the main....factor or the quality that is shown first is..........BLIND FOLDED TRUST AND BELEVE........but it all is a work of time...frnds cum bcuz its a part of life....and never xpect anything xtra frm a frnd just accept all the happiness that u gt frm he/she.......because she /he loves u and wil always try 2 keep u glad.....................thank s my frnd...see u later

Answered by sattwik , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:53 PM on October 02, 2008

You can only expect friendship from your friend. If he/she is not loyal to you then you can walk away. But you should take care of that you are loyal to him/her.

Answered by Dr Ashutosh , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:14 PM on October 02, 2008

Don't expect anything. Just be a friend. Ultimately every one of us is selfish. We all want happiness.

Answered by Ashalal P , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:18 PM on October 02, 2008

commitment , respect ,If the person is not loyal forget the person right now & move ahead in life. keep the positive thinking that the world is very big &you will some day find a person who is not only loyal but has all the qualities of good friend.

Answered by Moksha G , an ibibo Advisor, at 11:16 AM on October 02, 2008

There should not be any axpectation in friendship...bcs as soon as u start expecting things n if they r not met u would feel down n rejected. so u do u bit in friendship n leave rest on destiny.

Answered by Hiren Shah , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:02 AM on October 02, 2008

Apart from trust and care in friendship; fidelity, loyalty, mutual respect and confidence are the elements which constitute the strength of friendship.
If any friend is not loyal, then breach of trust creeps in to the relation. If there is breach of trust, the relation becomes weak and likely to break.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 9:13 PM on October 01, 2008