Real (True) love is noble, selfless, and self-sacrificing.
The love between your father and mother, between husband and wife, between a brother and a sister, between the teacher and a taught, between two friends so on and so forth. Everywhere we call ‘I love you’, ‘you love me’. That is the examples of true or real love.
Most of us confuse about the basic concept of love. Love is always true and real. Love cannot be false. Therefore, basically there is no difference between love and true or real love. It is only we, who make a perceptional difference in defining love and true love.
Love is an element of psychological bond between two people (may be between husband and wife or between boy and a girl). It is based on knowing and understanding, sharing of feelings and commitments to each other. Love does not appear suddenly. Neither is it conditional one. Love does not lie on beauty alone. It is something more. The beauty may be a factor for immediate attraction. But love grows after knowing each other, sharing feelings, caring and mutual understanding. Love requires vision towards life, towards approach to life and acceptability to each other.
The prominent basics in love are confidence and trust. Trust is the main pillar on which friendship or love lasts.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
6:57 PM on October 05, 2008