Love and relationship. I think this is one of the most complex behavior humans have. By experience I think this is all about expectations, you are always loved by your parents and you have a daughter and son relationship with your parents, but things are different at that level when compared to have a relationship with someone else.
Both people in love or relationship are looking at each other from there own point of view. Everything said and done is filtered through there mind in terms of right or wrong. We love someone or get into relationship with someone with some or the other expectations. When those expectations are not met the relationship starts breaking apart or gets converted into uneasy situations.
If you ever love someone or get into relationship with someone, then just give don't expect anything. This is not at all easy, but if you are able to do that then you will understand the other person, no matter what he or she does you will understand them, respect them and will never feel bad about it. The other person might be wrong, but you will forgive him/her much easily.
Does love or relationship helps? I think it does but nothing is free there is a cost to it. If you get into love or relationship with someone you are really comfortable with, then the journey of life becomes a bit easy, BUT you might not get the same support at every difficult turn in your life, be ready for that. As said in Gita "Never get attached with anything with which you cannot get detached". It always help to get a shelter of someone during the tough times in life, but at times you might still find yourself alone.
In short this is a very conscious decision which you need to take very carefully.
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11:34 PM on November 01, 2007