If you really want to have the peace of mind and keep yourself from all the "Zamelas" then suggest you to say good bye and wish both of them all the best and if required help them to get more closer in relation with each other.

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 9:05 PM on August 25, 2008

This is very simple. Talk to the other two parties in confidence and tell them your purpose clearly. Probably other both would appreciate you and accept your proposal gladly.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 12:51 PM on August 25, 2008

Simply step out of the triangle. It is not much difficult to do as you are to be benefitted for your act. It may hurt you momentarily, but to be true, you will be happier once you can wash up your past memories.
First try to avoid the girl who is maintaining a relation with someone else apart from you. Once you can draw out yourself, you can cut the relationship as time passes.

Answered by Baby Bora , an ibibo Advisor, at 7:49 PM on August 22, 2008