Don't hold his arm in public still he come out from his inhibition.

Answered by bk mondal , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:16 AM on September 28, 2008

hi gayathri .... if your boy friend dosent hold your hand then there could be a chance that he does not want to show this relation ship in public .. you need to wait and see if your relationship goes to the next level ... the things will surely change ... keep smilin :)

Answered by kapho , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:23 PM on September 27, 2008

See there is nothing wrong ..every one has different personality traits . So he feel shy while you do not. It may happen that like how you do not like him to be shy similarly he may not like you to be be extrovert . This is minute thing in a relationship as long he is 100 % committed to you . You do not have to worry. The important thing is that he is ready to marry you & he is willing to take your responsibility & support you in your thick & thin.

Answered by Moksha G , an ibibo Advisor, at 10:15 PM on September 26, 2008

This is very common in males, and believe me even I would have supported him. Some of us feel too ashamed when we get to hear people speak about men being fond of only female body. This makes us feel very guilty of the whole gender called male. So, we usually withdraw such feelings.

It is not that some boys don't feel like holding hands. It may be that they are way too shy to overcome the feeling of guilt and the sense that they should not behave irresponsibly. Trust me, they are just a victim of circumstances, and most such men are equally loving like others.

Keep his hand holding whenever he feels like ... and he will make you feel proud!

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 5:41 PM on September 26, 2008

first wen u get chance hug ur bf then kiss u.after he 'll tens again u proced .

after some take ur bf hand keepit in ur upper position.( means girls ustood)

then he come ur way.

Answered by selva kumar at 2:32 PM on September 26, 2008

change bf , he is not shy he is affred that if any other girl will see him with u catching hand in hand .....
if he loves u , he should have gudes not catch u r hund but to hug u in public places .............................. ...........loves give power to catch hand s in public palce .all the best for u r life

Answered by Chandan at 6:43 PM on September 25, 2008

Dear Gayatri please respect his feeling Becoz I think he doesn’t want that anybody blame u

Answered by aishwarya , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:48 PM on September 25, 2008

oh dear you gotta find someone like yourself and feel the same vibes......even i hv similar situation...... wouldn't it be a gud idea to see if we are on the same boat???
hugs

Answered by Rahul Khanna , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:38 PM on September 25, 2008

Gayatri, you need not feel bad or embarrassing for the behaviour of your boyfriend. According to me he is very sensible boy. I appreciate him. He knows culture and how to behave with a girlfriend in a public place. If in a public place, as sought by you, had he hold your hands, the unknown public around you might have made some unbearable remarks, particularly about you. Probably you would not have felt comfortable in that situation. It is he who, by his wit, saved your image in the public place. You should also appreciate him. He is your boyfriend. You have lot of time to hold each other’s hands in other serene place.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 4:52 PM on September 25, 2008

Hi Gayatri,I wud suggest u to respect his feelings.After all love is not about showing it to other people,who cares whether u and ur ur partner hold hand in public or not the main thing is that if u two love birds are truly in love wid each other then no need to publicise it just enjoy the beauty of privacy.AFTER ALL LOVE IS NOT MARKETING

Answered by sudipto , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:28 PM on September 25, 2008