First of all if any boy tell the girl during the first meeting, to whom she does not even knows properly, many a time create a bad impression in her mind about that boy. She thinks that this boy may be trying to flirt with her and try to run away or keep herself away from him. If you really loves her then try to win her heart by making the friendship with her, before that say sorry for what you have said to her. Once you start behaving nicely and like a gentleman with her, helping her in studies etc. and spending the time with her surely she may change her mind about you and once she develop the confidence and faith about your friendship then you can says that you have started loving her. And I am sure she will responding you. It is always better to approach the girls, specially in matter on love, step by step to win her heart. Wish you all the best

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 5:17 PM on October 07, 2008

she is not any product that want at any cost , she is girls and you want she then you have create love in his heart for you . uska dil jetlo kaise bhi.

Answered by Ravindra M , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:51 PM on October 06, 2008

Try to be loyal to her.
Just dont force her to be in relationship with u.
If u really love her then u will definitely get her some day.
And remember one thing ur happiness lies into her's if u really love her.

Answered by Bhushan More , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:27 PM on October 03, 2008

My friend Rituraj, there is nothing like winning or getting a lady at any cost. Each person comes with a pack of self-respect and independence that you have no right to interfere with. Mostly, it is seen that girls take time to choose, and are often reluctant to go fast.

If you like her, be a friend to her ... and let her feel the importance in your life. Do respect her, care her and share a spirited bond so that she can understand your love. Only then will she realize how important your relation is.

Start giving her the space, and let her enjoy the relationship as well. Enjoying a relationship will make both to take it seriously, and not to act weird.

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 3:39 PM on October 03, 2008

im afraid you are the one to be blamed for this... it was your first meeting and you definately dint knw the gal enuff to like her so much... and before telling that to her, it was important that you spent some time with her and gave her a chance to know you too...
gals will not just accept proposals from any guy round the corner...

i guess ur best bet as of now is to apologise to her and try to win her as a friend first... then let her know you (and you know her too) and after taht consider taking the next step.

Answered by Mehul Shroff , an ibibo Specialist, at 4:10 PM on October 02, 2008

My friend, Like someone and loving someone is too diff thing alltogether. So u decide 1st wht it is? whether Like or love? bcs if it is love then it has to unconditional & u cant force someone to love u. Love is to give & not to take. If u realy love her leave it on destiny...if she is the person made for u she would definatly come back to u....otherwise life always gives a second chance my frd.

Answered by Hiren Shah , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:09 AM on October 02, 2008

try to know what she wants..........impress her & take the help of her friends, then represent urself as she like most................give her very good response in all matters......

Answered by mukesh kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:14 AM on October 02, 2008

Rituraj, don’t presume friendship is as simple as taking a cup of tea or an event of sports.
You like the girl. And simply telling a girl ‘I like you’ in the first meet is not going to make things happen. Making friendship with a girl is far more different.

Before making friendship, you must know what friendship is. Friendship means a relation between two. Both should know and understand each other intimately. Both of you should be of similar interests, mutual respect. There should be confidence, security and trust in between you two. Thereafter only an attachment grows between the two.

In true friendship, there are feelings, caring and concern, loyalty, love, confidence on each other. In friendship, trust is the vital element. Without trust, true friendship cannot last long. When trust is lost, every thing lost.

Moreover, girls are selective. To become a friend with a boy, a girl would first see that she can have confidence, security and trust on him. Once she finds all those traits in a boy, she would prefer to make friendship.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 7:57 PM on October 01, 2008