Infatuation is essentially the feeling of instant attraction ... and it must not obey reasons of attraction. It could be a smile, body features or as vague as the urge for a physical relation. And in most cases, they are not the ultimate reasons for love. It also happens that a person is immature not to understand love and prefers to fall for such a relation of infatuation.

Love is a defined relation that progresses with a complete union of reason and affection, care and share, and bond that gels hearts and minds. The ultimate intent can be many ... to love ... yet the desire of the spontaneity is mostly eradicated from infatuation.

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 1:07 PM on October 03, 2008

nop0 they r nt the same man...see infatuations is seen mostly in youngsters......thats bcuz her heart run away fr girls everytime we see something pretty...i mean...sexy...so we fall in lov then but u kno this love lasts nly fr 2 months or so...but true love is 2 gud.i mean it is done wen in years time and not just in 1 sight man.....truely.........LOVE RULES.........buit infatuations {crushes} will never stop pounding and approaching us....i mean men here...........

Answered by sattwik , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:06 PM on October 02, 2008

Infatuation is an instant state of feeling of craze or love. It is almost carried away by unreasoning passion for love. This is an addictive love. Infatuation normally occurs with youth and at initial stage of a relationship. It is mainly attract intensity and sexual desire.

Love, on the other hand, is a spontaneous element of natural feeling, which comes with birth. Infant, children, adolescents, youth, husband-wife, father-mother, grandmother-grandfather, every body posses this celestial aspect of love. We love our neighbours, our friends and sometimes even a stranger.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 9:51 PM on September 30, 2008

love starts with infatuation only. after some time when u get little close u tend to care and share ur feelings with the partner and that is wat love is.

infatuation is short in life whereas love lasts longer.

Answered by p kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:48 PM on September 30, 2008

NO , Infatution is love but in a sexually desired manner
and Love is when u love that person not for sex

Answered by Piya Sharma , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:23 PM on September 30, 2008

love is comitment infatuation is passing fancy.

Answered by khurshid , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:09 PM on September 30, 2008

Infatuation doesn't last .. you lose interest in the in the person when they get serious, you look at the person as an object to satisfy yourself, if any trouble starts your gone, you get tired of the other person when they no longer are of interest.

Real love lasts forever, your willing to committ to one another for the rest of your lives, to compromise on important issues, your thoughts are only of your beloved you dont' continue to look for something better or take any opportunity to cheat.

Answered by Shampa 2007 , an ibibo Specialist, at 11:50 PM on September 29, 2008

infactuation is only an attraction which comes with the first sight of a person and goes or fades after a certain period of time but love is an eternal f eeling which remains the same in ur heart for a person u are in love with and has an honesty and faith for each other

Answered by jyoti , an ibibo Master, at 10:46 PM on September 29, 2008

Infatuation and crush die their natural death, but love remains as a warm memory in heart for long times.

Answered by Rajeev , an ibibo Advisor, at 5:30 PM on September 29, 2008

sanjeet,
both are interdependent

the first thing u will see in a girl is the beauty
u will come to know about the heart only if u observe her, her thaughts and actions

so the feeling u get by seeing is infactuation and the feeling u bet after observing her is love

Answered by sharma , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:24 PM on September 29, 2008