dont do anything.as you are really very happy with your own small family.i dnt knw the reason that why your x-gf got married to another man.if your x-gf got divrced,the reason may be anything.so you should never make your wife and your kids punish because of your x-gf's life.your x-gf was your past,your wife and yours 2 small kids are your present and your future.you should be with them in the same way as you are.

Answered by Sarvesh , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:09 PM on March 27, 2008

dear the only thing that you can do is give her an moral support and try to be far from her...because may get emotionally attached to you and remember you have an family...and i suugest you to be her good friend and see that she may not be an problem for your family.

Answered by Jeedith , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:10 PM on March 27, 2008

Don't try to remain in past.U r feeling sorry for the girl coz she is devorced,u can help her but that doesn't mean that u forget about ur family.Think abut her situation,I am sure u don't wat to see ur family in the same condition.

Answered by mrittika , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:20 PM on March 27, 2008

Hi Spider,

How are you ?? Certainly you are not going to grow any soft corner for her again in your heart ... Whoever she is ... just mind it she is your past and today's story is you have wife and you have kids ...

I know its very hard ... but you cant help it ... so just be in touch with her as a friend and only if she is in need ... otherwise just keep away from her.

This is my personal advice ... dont share anything about this with your wife ... as everyone says that woman are very suspicious and when its a matter of ex then your wife is just another james bond ...

and for you ... just keep away of her if she do not need you ... do not show sympathy ...

I hope I am clear in my words ... inspite of that if you have any query you can ask me ...

Thanks and Regards ...

Answered by Lalit Burma , an ibibo Specialist, at 4:10 PM on March 27, 2008

If you were still single at this stage then it would have been a different story bt nw tat u hve settled in life wid sum1 else, it's wise to act sensibly...i can feel wat's goin on inside ur heart & soul bt at times we hve to gve priority to th situatn....so i wud advise u to disclose & discuss ths matter wid ur wife..i m sure she'll react prudently & wil help it wid sum bright ideas...remember 1 thng: watever has happned to ur ex-luv is her destiny...bt if anythn happns to ur married relatn due to ths thn it wud be ur fault...best o luk !!

Answered by Ayan Paul , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:51 PM on March 27, 2008

hii dear
dont b over smart. wat r u planning 2 do. when destiny love this way y r u worried.As a human being we should b simpathetic.
Do u know we males r over sentimental which is simply wrong
so enjoy ur life.Still not cleared go to a orphan house & admit ur own child 2 that house coz 2morrow it has 2 happen then y not today & one more thing wat about ur wife dear.
THINK IT TWICE BEFORE MAKING A DECISION.
best of luck

Answered by crazy male at 2:44 PM on March 27, 2008

hey when both u r spending a wonderful life than .... When she get divorce there is nothing to worry or u can say she is safe form that human being. but ur life is going smoth so u don't have to do anything but if u had not mention abt her to ur wifes u can better do it now. I don't think u want her back in ur life so be careful abt it

Answered by zuwa , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:44 PM on March 27, 2008

hi dear,
If you want to live ur sucessful married life then you should forget for her otherwise ur wife may disturb ur family life.
don't forget indian wives are very dangerous for thier husbands.
hope you will think for my suggestion.
with devine blessings for ur ex friend.
sanjay ratnaker

Answered by Sanjay , an ibibo Specialist, at 2:19 PM on March 27, 2008

Hello,
I think you should not go to her bcoz firstly you are married and secondly you had kids too. therefore,it is your moral duty to repay and maintain the trust of those whom you trust.Ya! you can maintain freindship with her and as friend try to found her the better path for her life.Fro the social and personal view,it is the only feasible solution otherwise you will loose the world form both the sides.Thanks

Answered by mohd asif at 2:15 PM on March 27, 2008

just u can do friendship. not more than that.

Answered by chanda at 2:12 PM on March 27, 2008