for an unemployed man love is not only a luxury,going a step forward i would say its a crime or sin for him to fall in love.he should not even think about it let alone doing it.and even if he unfortunately falls in love,which cannot be controled or supressed,he wont get the girl he fell for.simply because he is of no worth,everyone in todays time is valued in terms of money in his/her pocket or bank or anywhere else.so the girl wont even look at him at the first place.his education,his character,his looks,all of these have no value at all if he is not earning any money,and women cant be blamed for that attitude towards anyone who is unemployed,money is very important for leading a decent life and no one would like to spend their life in misery knowingly.so,if a man is unemployed he should think of getting himself a good work where he can earn and make himself capable of providing a good life for his woman and kids instead of running around women and falling for them which will get him nowhere.he has to have a lot of patience and see the reality and his worth first before looking at a woman expectantly.

Answered by arun agarwal , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:21 PM on August 19, 2008

Ofcourse it is sort of an luxury for such young man. Many young unemployed man get diverted towards the women to make them satisfy and in return earn some money to spend lavishly.

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 8:54 AM on August 14, 2008

For love it does not matter u must have to have a job...

Its like a poor man can never love a girl...

Ishaan is totally disagree to u....

To love some one u just need endless love for some one nothing else..

Answered by Ishaan Goel , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:25 PM on August 13, 2008

Emotions and experiences related to the senses of affection and sexual attraction is called Love.It is interpersonal relationship with two persons. An unemployed young man also a human being can love a girl . Of course he may not be able to give good presents to his beloved. The girl knows he is umemployed now but loves him because she loves him truley and he will one day get a job and settle in life. Luxury is only a means not the end in itself. Dedication and devotion and living for the other truely and totally is more vital to love life than mere luxury alone.

Answered by Sachin Samy , an ibibo Master, at 6:23 PM on August 13, 2008

Love is indeed a Luxury tat everyone can and shud be able to afford.Why just the young alone? Love only becomes an unaffordable luxury when it is converted into a commodity.Love is a feeling that can be relished in a gesture, in a thought or deed.U don't ave to hang out in Malls, or PVR's or pubs,discs or coffee shops to express Love.
Love only becomes a luxury that you cannot afford when you project urself as something you not actually and then when the expectations are high and you cvannot fulfil them then love becomes frustrating.
So if you want to afford Love then don't turn it into an economic commodity that is available for a price tag.That is not Love but Lust. Both maybe 4 letter words but there is a world of difference between the two.

Answered by The Lip , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:13 AM on August 13, 2008

For an unemployed young man whose family back ground is financially strong and who does not care for an employment for his livelihood, making love for him may be a luxury. But number of this category young man is less.
However, the unemployed young man whose basic need is to establish in life through a profession or an occupation, love is not only a luxury; it is a fashion, a fantasy but a castle in sky.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 5:01 AM on August 13, 2008

if you consider today's situation it is indeed a luxury. I feel the young man should first walk on solid ground before going for romance,else he is bound to ruin two lives.

Answered by Mt. F@!rY at 9:20 PM on August 12, 2008