It is not always the case but base on the situation it may be. One has to tackle the situation if it arise so.

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 10:41 AM on July 17, 2008

yes ofcourse....specially when the partner does not make any effort to improve the relation..it really sucks.

Answered by Sugarpie Ls , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:14 PM on July 07, 2008

Oh yes, it is. Any relationship has to be built and maintained ... and a love one, where both come from two different and unrelated families is a big risk. There are constant challenges of life that they will keep facing. However, it needs both the guy and the gal to confront them and maintain the relationship ... and in case one fails, the other should rise up to the occasion to meet the challenge.

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 4:17 PM on July 07, 2008

sustaining a relationship is not easy under any circumstances if one does not have understanding, caring, giving, compromising, sacrificing, adjusting, affection, concern, responsibility and attachment..... its a toll order where most fail.

Answered by Rahul Khanna , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:57 PM on July 04, 2008

Hi Manshu, the containment and sustaining of relationships is something much greater and bigger than other things in life. It’s like tolerating somebody with his/her full shortcomings and qualities and making the best out of it. The real acid test comes in the phase of compelling circumstances where the relationships are tried and tested. It needs grit and determination and the will and skill of surviving through the most demanding phases of life. It’s really impossible at one stage but one tends to emotionally possessive in sustaining it.

Answered by Satyajit , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:59 PM on July 04, 2008

no and a yes i u are commited whole heartedly then no prob and but when u are low.....depressed...not in a mood for being romantic and stuff then handling the situation becomes tricky then handling the relationship at this moment becomes risky..

Answered by Keerthi , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:51 AM on July 01, 2008

If you feel yourself too much committed towards your love, it's,then, a cake-walk for you. But if you are in a double mind in any way, it grows harder each day to keep such realtionship.

Answered by Subrata , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:32 PM on June 30, 2008

Sustaining a relationship is hard; but not too hard and not impossible. Because, a relationship is a tie developed between two persons, male or female. This is a relationship in normal or common friendship. But in a true or real relationship there should be common interest, affection, strong attachment to each other, loyalty, love and mutual respect. It reflects a sense of caring and concern to each other, a desire to see each other’s growth and development. In a true or real relation, a friend never expects any thing in return. Finally trust is the most important and vital element in real relationship. It is the breathe of relationship. Therefore, where trust is lost, every thing is lost.
That is why, sustaining a relationship is not a cup of tea. One has to be sincere in the relation and faithful to continue devotedly. Once you are convinced and committed, it would be easy to maintain or sustain the relationship.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 8:57 PM on June 29, 2008

its not... as fas as u have got love in ur heart for the other one....but if love is not there its difficult and imposible too... :)

Answered by Ishaan Goel , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:26 PM on June 29, 2008