Duniys,
Your conception towards love is not correct. According to you, as indicated in your question, true love means love without sex. But this is not true. Because, love between husband and wife is also true love. But there is sex in their love. Therefore, your conception towards love has to be refined.
To speak honestly, love and true love are the same. There is no such extra feeling to be said as true love. Love is true love. Only few of us define true love and love separately.
Love (which you said true love) is noble, selfless, and self-sacrificing. The love exist between father and mother, between husband and wife, between a brother and a sister, between the teacher and a taught, between two friends so on and so forth. Everywhere we call ‘I love you’, ‘you love me’. That is the examples of love.
Most of us confuse about the basic concept of love. Love is always true. Love cannot be false. Therefore, basically there is no difference between love and true love. It is only we, who make a perceptional difference in defining love and true love.
Love is an element of psychological bond between two people (may be between husband and wife or between boy and a girl). It is based on knowing and understanding, sharing of feelings and commitments to each other.
I believe in love without sex, except between husband and wife where sex is an additional element.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
10:16 PM on July 31, 2008
