As long as masturbation doesn’t comprise the whole of your sex life, and does not take precedence over intimate relationships with a partner, then no, it’s not generally believed to be harmful. That said, it’s important to look at what your masturbation activities include. Is it just a mind fantasy, or are you using pornography, Internet videos or photos, or even online or telephone sex to increase your pleasure -- and does this upset your partner? Also important to consider: How much of your time do masturbation activities occupy and does it keep you from other things in your life, including having sex with a partner? If so, it can be problematic in many respects.
Answered by
Ajay Chawla
, an ibibo Master,
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3:04 PM on September 14, 2008