My personal ideas: girls like ppl who listen to them, and they r fluent, so all u hv to do is listen with a sharp ear, say one-two words in between which shows u hv heard (like paraphrasing what she said, or repeating one of two of her words), don't try to solve her problems for her, she doens't want u to solve her problem, she is quite competent to do it herself, she just wants to get a guy who can listen to her without getting impatient and telling her to stop talking and just solve the problem...this is the simplest and ONLY rule, the problem is not that ur not good-looking enough, or she is not good enough for u and so on, it's just that u should be able to tolerate her talking without interrupting her... don't make it out she's stupid to be talking abt a problem, it's so easy to solve, and all that, that's the worst insult for her... she's talking abt it bcoz that's the way her brain is wired. ALL the other things r secondary and UNIMPORTANT, believe me!
Answered by
Dr Raj
, an ibibo Citizen,
at
7:53 AM on July 13, 2008