Past is always past. Past is always refer for betterment of future. Some husbands really very frank & don't mind about such discussion. Better not to share about special relationship. past relationship will invite problems in your life. Disclosing such things depend upon your mutual understanding & trust. Better to leave past, see the future & enjoy your life with husband.

Answered by gr pravin , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:27 PM on May 10, 2008

If its good things, then why not... sure share. If those are bad things, then think is it really necessary to disclose to your partner. If not, then bury it. If its necessary, then you have to wait until he completely trusts you.

Answered by Sridutt , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:31 PM on May 06, 2008

One day at a time--this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering.

Answered by Rakesh Ram , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:32 AM on April 25, 2008

I don't think such an act gives any bravery award, and I will say to do this will be to invite problems without any reason. Though we talk of transparency in love, but some truths are better kept under the carpet. In fact, even the marriage is not in jeopardy, even the present flings are best kept under closet ... not to be disclosed to the spouse.

Answered by idlemind , an ibibo Master, at 5:43 PM on April 20, 2008

not necessary

Answered by saravanan at 1:25 PM on April 19, 2008

In my opinion, there comes a stage in our lives when we start trusting our partner a lot and during that phase, when he/she would come out and open up their past to us, we will be able to accept it as past. The gesture to come out and be honest will add to the love that we already have.

But if we do not come out in this phase and quite later in life he comes to know of those secrets from other sources, he may feel betrayed. he will still love you but might doubt his own love that you couldn't trust him more

I recommend go for it and tell him

Answered by Rahul Jha , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:54 PM on April 18, 2008

You shud never try n do this!!!! It will surely ruin ur life even ur hubby is a gr8 guy!!!!!! Very few male can handle it, its ur gud luck if he is one of those few..........

Answered by Sanjiv Kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:43 PM on April 18, 2008

jo bit gai wo baat gai par apko apne husband ke saath fair rehna chahiye mai ye nahi kehta ki sab sahi hi boliyega agar koi sach apki life ko barbad kar deta hai to use avoid kijiyega

Answered by vivek raj , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:04 PM on April 18, 2008

I think in the long run, it would be nice if you come clean about everything because you will be living your entire life with your husband. But if you think he wont be able to handly it positively, then drop the idea.

Answered by Sarvesh , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:39 PM on April 18, 2008

ya you sure ur feelings (good & bad) shows to your husband. no problem creates. be confidence.ok

Answered by davinder at 7:16 PM on April 17, 2008