Love begins at the time birth. That is why love is called an inborn impulsive feeling of attraction and affection towards others. That it is an inborn instinctive element of feeling we can prove from the behaviour of a baby. A baby in its infancy shows the sign of love towards it mother.
Later on, gradually people develop this feeling and enjoy in different ways in different perspectives. They give different names in different stages. Love between mother and child can not be compared with love between husband and wife. Like wise love between brother and sister in different from that of love between a boy and a girl.
Love can’t be conditional. It is a matter of intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. True love comes after proper understanding each other. Love among a boy and a girl grows after knowing each other, sharing feelings, caring and mutual understanding. In fact, there is no established formula to get love. It is spontaneous.
True love is rarely found. But it is still there in this world. However, most people do have wrong conception on true love. They mix up love/true love with element of sex only.
True love is noble, selfless, and self-sacrificing. True love is nothing but the love between your father and mother, between husband and wife, between a brother and a sister, between the teacher and a taught, between two friends so on and so forth. Everywhere we call ‘I love you’, ‘you love me’. That is the examples of true love.
Therefore, basically there is no difference between love and true love. It is only we, who make a perceptional difference in defining love and true love.
The important feature in love is confidence and trust earned by both on each other. Confidence begets trust. Trust is most powerful and sustaining pole for prolongation of love. When trust lost every thing lost.
Answered by
Ramcharan
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8:44 PM on January 05, 2009
