my dear if u r in love some one and u truly love her than you have no need to ensure any thing...these things are nothing in front of love....

Answered by Ishaan Goel , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:32 PM on May 12, 2008

If you both are really in love and intend to get married,things like family standards shouldn't come in your way.

Answered by anu uppal , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:05 PM on May 12, 2008

talk to the girl about what might be her parenst requirement.. as in what they want from their son-in-law... and then try to fulfill them up...
but when you both love each other then any such things should not come in your way and your parenst will understand you.

Answered by rakesh sain , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:08 PM on May 13, 2008

not to worry abt it if ur family members allow & accept cause if they accept u can manage it. cause ur friends & everyone will give respect to her as they give to u so don't worry abt the standard of living. Both u & she have to adjust with certain situations

Answered by zuwa , an ibibo Advisor, at 4:04 PM on May 13, 2008

love does not need to match family standards, boy and girl should thoroughly need to understand each other and protect each other from relatives vibes and support each other.

Answered by ranbir , an ibibo Citizen, at 6:17 PM on May 13, 2008

if u think she is the one then go ahead dear. but frst tell her about ur family status.if she is ok with it and aslo wanna spent herlife with u. its great .

Answered by rahul CooL at 8:11 PM on May 13, 2008

Pose to your parents for some time, that u have interest in guys and she poses to her parents that she has lost interes in boys, so they would soon be glad to get u both married later on when they find out u guys like eachother. They would be better off to get u two married than u see u as gay and lesbian :)

Answered by Prashant at 9:28 AM on May 14, 2008

BELIEVE.

Answered by ashu shukla , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:42 PM on May 14, 2008

Comparatively means difficult dont compare see if u get married to that girl.if u love that girl compromise for every thing with ur family also.everything will be great in future.

Answered by Mohd Farooq , an ibibo Master, at 5:35 PM on June 04, 2008