Ashutosh, your friend Aditya only loves Neha. He does not know, if Neha loves him. Even he has not been able to talk to her so far. In such case, it is not love. It is an attraction; not even affection. In love or affection both should know and understand each other. Love is a relation in between two. In relation of love, there is common interest, affection, strong attachment to each other, loyalty and mutual respect. Above all, trust is the vital element in love.
To love a boy, a girl wants that she should feel secured and confident on him. He is trustworthy. Now, if you want to help your friend, you make and congenial arrangement so that both can talk and understand each other intimately. Once you have done this, the thing would automatically take its shape.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
4:42 AM on June 30, 2008