It is not so easy to get a girlfriend. Friendship is not like that. It is not so simple to get a real friend.
Girls are selective in making a friend. If it is a case of selecting boy friend; they are more cautious. Therefore, to become a friend with a boy, a girl first sees that the boy, with whom she would make friendship, is confident and trustworthy. Once she finds confidence, security and trust with the boy, she may be interested to make friendship with that boy.
But your profile is hidden. Therefore, without knowing you, I think, no girl would like to make friendship with you. Even if somebody comes forward, that friendship would not last long. Friendship is a relation between two persons, may be a boy and a girl. Both should know and understand each other intimately. Interests of both should be alike.
When both understand each other, share feelings, care each other, a confidence between the two grows. Confidence gives trust to both. And trust is the base upon where longevity of friendship lasts. That means without trust, friendship cannot last long. When trust is lost, every thing lost.
I hope, still you may get a girlfriend. And for that I have a suggestion for you. Since you are a member in Ibibo, continue for some time in this forum (Ibibo). See the activities, authenticities and feasibilities of it. This is a platform with multifarious activities like questions, answers, blogging, opinion making etc. Involve in those activities. You will enjoy it. Additionally, your activities would attract other members including girls. Hopefully, thereafter, some members and girls would volunteer to offer friendship to you. Then you would be able to select the best one.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
6:50 AM on June 11, 2009
