Love is that it is an passionate feeling of emotional, romantic and attraction of a person towards another person (may be a boy and a girl or a man and a woman). Love is based on confidence, faith and trust. Therefore, confidence, faith and trust are the essential factors whereupon the longevity of love and relationship depends.
Love in broader sense is an impulsive element of inborn instinct.
• Infant, children, adolescents, youth, husband, wife, father, mother, grandpas, everybody do have this celestial element of love. The selfless love grows between your father and mother, between husband and wife, between a brother and a sister, between the teacher and a taught, between two friends so on and so forth. Everywhere we call ‘I love you’, ‘you love me’. That is the examples of true love. Therefore, love to each other is divine. It is nearer to God. Without love the world cannot exist. That is physical temporal love.
• Love has one more dimension. This love exists between male and female, boy and girl. In this love, there is physical attraction, attachment and fragrance of sex. This love has link with romance.
• Lust, on the other hand, means as intense desire or craving for gratification and excitement. In addition to common use, lust is strictly denoting sexual desire.
In lust, presence of emotion is less prominent where is in love emotion is conspicuous. In true love lust gets second preference.
• Another addictive love is there. It normally occurs with youngsters at initial stage of a relationship. When a boy or a girl sees a beautiful girl or a handsome boy either or both of them may develop an immediate sense of attraction towards each other. It is mainly an intense attraction of sexual nature. This is infatuation.
However, love is a matter of understanding, true sharing of feelings and true commitments to each others indicating another dimension. Therefore, love cannot appear over ground suddenly from the blue. In fact, there is no established formula to acquire love. Love in later stage requires vision and approach towards life. In true love, lover does not expect anything in return.
There is no substitute of love.
WHY MAN FALLS IN LOVE.
From time immemorial people are in pursuit of love.
Through love people live a meaningful life peacefully. When in love people enjoy their happy moments and share their odd and difficult times. With this end in view people marry.
There are many reasons why we fall in love. Some people fall in love for the right reasons. Others fall in love but lack confidence. What ever may be the reasons, the primary reason for falling in love is to acquire happiness and pleasure from love.
We are social being. We do not live for ourselves alone. Rather we cannot live alone. We want somebody to share our feelings, pleasure and sorrows of life. They are called our friends. A friend is a channel of love and affection. Friendship means a relation between two or more. All of them are with similar interests, mutual respect and known intimately one another. Thereafter, a strong attachment grows between the friends
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
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4:53 PM on December 01, 2008