First u shld try find out the reason for it.Try find out if there is something particular in ur hubbys behaviour that is bothering u.It could be anything.Once u find out the reason then it becomes much easier to solve it.Remember where there is will there is a way.

Answered by dev dash , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:41 PM on April 11, 2008

WHY GET UPSET..... GIVE IT A TRY..IF IT DOESNOT WORK OUT KEEP UR SELF HAPPY OUTSIDE THE HOUSE .

Answered by lovin oberoi at 2:13 PM on April 10, 2008

try to work it out...look for a small bit of happiness even. But one thing you hv not highlighted wat is the reason for ur being upset

Answered by nonu g at 8:12 PM on April 05, 2008

Give it a chance ... and in case you are past that stage, let it be over with. You must have the faith to stand once at least to test your relation. In case you have tested it more than that, there is no point to drag it around. Talk to your spouse and see if there is help ... or else, prepare for taking a harsh decision.

Answered by idlemind , an ibibo Master, at 7:55 PM on April 05, 2008

i dont know why r u upset in ur life if u r mentall y upset or sexually?if u r sexualy upset ur husband is not intersted in u then ucared ur husband and u take interst in ur husband and u managed ur some time with ur husband and if u r mentally upset then share all the felings wid ur husbnd

Answered by preet dhami , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:36 PM on April 05, 2008

Well dear once you are married you should have faith,trust and understanding with ur partner...
If you are upset with you married life first find out the reason why are you upset...Does ur wife not satisfy you physically or mentally...
Talk up with ur partner regarding this matter...See the way ur wife reacts..If you think that she is reacting in a negative way and even she is not interested in this married life then go to some marraige counciler and discuss ur problem with them as seperations is not the way...
Marraige is a commitment not only with husband and wife but also with their families so i advice u to first talk to ur partner regarding this and then go to marraige counciler if this doesn't work..
ALl the best as divorce is not the best option...

Answered by Gayatri , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:12 PM on April 04, 2008

Talking is best! You both have to trust one another! Sneaking around or lieing is never good in a marriage neither is jealousy! I don't know how long you've been married but it sounds to me you both need to talk and work both issues out!We talked about this issue--I respect his friendship with her because he finally explained to me why it is so important to him. Life is good.

Answered by Mohd Farooq , an ibibo Master, at 10:57 AM on April 04, 2008

well dear i m not married but i can only suggest u to discuss the problem with ur lovemate.........
and also do one thing just ask him/her that if he is having any problom from u or ur behaviour and try to sove it
i m damn sure that u will find any solution of that problem
because i also do the same...........

Answered by gaurav pannu , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:58 PM on April 03, 2008

First of all there is nothing like LOVE
its a one type of attrection
just frgot her
constrant on life
god gives u right time for right thing
trust in god

Answered by ritesh patel , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:09 PM on April 03, 2008

Have patience coz in the begining every one has to compromise with their life. you know new atmosphere & a little bit liberty to do wat you like to do. so try to content with wat you are getting from your in laws & hubby. further if you really dont wanna compromise then try to take divorce coz that relation shud be ended which are seeming to be painful.

Answered by rahul morya , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:31 PM on April 03, 2008