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I am in luv with a girl. But she dsn't know I am in Love with her. In fact, everything is stacked against me. She is hurt in luv Also age diff. can u help?

Asked in Love & Romance at 2:53 AM on August 25, 2008

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Rajesh Rao
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See when a girl is already hurt in love,it becomes even difficult 4 her to trust someone again and fall in love,therefore she avoids getting into a relationship.You love her and she doesn't knw this and i think u should not tell her now,give her some time to overcome wht she's gone through but be her friend before becoming lover.If u propose a girl who is nt your friend or she doesnt know u then 99.9%of chances r she will reject you even there is age diff in yr case so my friend become friends first,whn u gain her trust then u can propose her.It will be easier for her to give it a thought instead of rejecting at the time.As a friend try to help her to overcome the time whn she's been hurt in love.i hope it helped....

Answered by *Mani * , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:16 PM on August 25, 2008

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*Mani *
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MAN O MAN ..... TRY TO MAKE HER BELIEVE TAT THE PERSON WHO HURT HER WZ NOT THE RIGHT MAN FR HER... ND MAYB U R.. HEHE NO SERIOUSLY.. MAKE HER TRUST U.

Answered by Lei Wulong , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:46 AM on August 27, 2008

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Lei Wulong
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Dear friend, since she is hurt in a love , Don't try to reveal you are in love with her at once. Wait for her recovery from her mental conflicts. Love her as much as possible. Help her as much as you can . Don't worry. human mind alwasy search for love .so, if you win to convince her that you love her sincerely she will love you in return. But never remind her about her lost love and never hurt her at all.Never say her you love her instead you show your love in your deeds .

Answered by Priyarajan , an ibibo Advisor, at 10:25 PM on August 26, 2008

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Priyarajan
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well if you love a girl and she doesnt know about your feelings for her then you have to go and talk to her about it and see how she takes it .... she is hurt in love doesnt mean she will never love again in her life ..may be she will take her time to overcome the situation...its better you wait and try to bring her in normal state of mind instead of rushing yourself and spoil the chances of getting her... age difference doesnt really matters ..there are many people in relation with someone with whom they have age difference ... if your love is honest for her then hopefully she will understand and accept you but you have to be patient and go slow about it,make her comfortable with you,initially a friendship is what you should look at first ...build a trusting friendship and then take steps gradually.

Answered by arun agarwal , an ibibo Advisor, at 5:18 PM on August 26, 2008

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arun agarwal
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so let her know about it...means u love her let her know...and let her decide what she wants now....whether she wants love again or she wants to spend her life alone....

Answered by Ishaan Goel , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:12 PM on August 26, 2008

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Ishaan Goel
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To make the impossible possible is another aspect of love. In case she likes you, please give it an honest try. At least she should come out of the feeling that love hurts. And if you are feeling comfortable that you can turn around, feel free to move ahead. But tread slowly, and try to correct one problem at a time ... and remove one obstacle after another as you move. Good luck!

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 6:40 PM on August 25, 2008

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If you are really in love with the girl and wants to make her happy then I suggest you to meet her personally and tell her that you are in love with her. She will be very much happy since someone is still loving her. Promise her that you will give her the utmost love and will keep her happy forever.

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 6:39 PM on August 25, 2008

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Shrihari
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When you only love a girl and she does not know your feeling, it is one sided and incomplete love. Moreover there is a age difference too.
But whatever may be the case, you must tell her. In love both should know and understand each other. Understanding gives confidence to her. Therefore, better have intimate talk with the girl. In fact, in love nothing should be kept hidden between the two.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 11:47 AM on August 25, 2008

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Ramcharan
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brother , what made u thought that u are in love . pyaar ek aisi kala hai jisco samjha nahi ja sakta , asal me pyaar hata kya hain hum jante hi nahi hai . ek halki baatcheet , choti muskurahat ko hi hum pyaar maan lete hain . to brother leave this disputes for destiny to decide becaz whats there in destiny only that will happen no one culd chalange it neither u nor me . so brother come out of this fake world it will only hurt u & will give u serious tensions .

Answered by Hemant , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:39 AM on August 25, 2008

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You are in love with a girl. She is very younger to you. She does not know that you love her. She too is hurt in love with someone. Then it is easier that she understands what love is. True love has no age barrier. You must show your concern and commitment to her. She must know you truley love her want her and will take good care of her all your life and live for her alone and never hurt her. This will definitely bring her close to you and accept your hand as a true love and a soul mate.

Answered by Sachin Samy , an ibibo Specialist, at 7:23 AM on August 25, 2008

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