As per your age you must be still studying. So suggest you to concentrate on your studies and then think about making love etc.
There is only 6 years age difference between you two, and that's fine enough no problem. But as per girl age i.e.14 years she is not matured and if her parent complaint about you to the police station then you be behind the bar as per law. So be careful and wait till she is matured enough (18 years).

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 10:48 PM on March 28, 2008

the age gap is very normal... but u guys are TOO young..

give it few more years as she is practically a kid.

Answered by Cindy , an ibibo Advisor, at 7:22 PM on March 28, 2008

this is not a love , at ur age it is infatuation , that means u r just attracted towards her by her looks or may be how she dresses or talks , it is not love , and yes age difference is also big , so u better put ur mind in ur career and studies , grow up and then go for girls dude there is lot more to see in ur future explore it

Answered by Aditya Vir , an ibibo Citizen, at 6:17 PM on March 28, 2008

hello dear you are of 20 and you are mature enough to understand that a girl of 14 is how much mature to understand the meaning of love.its only the physical attraction with u as every one gets at this stage.and as she will grow younger and younger she will starts moving far frm u so its better 4 u to leave her at this stage and also let her to be concentrate at her studies.

Answered by abhay singh , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:18 PM on March 28, 2008

Well, you are 20 and thus i guess youa re mature enough. So do you think a 14 year old girl is mature enough to actually fall in love??

It can be a teenage infatuation, which most of the girls have at this age, specially for older men.

C'mon, be practical, give the girl a chance to grow...she's jus a kid, baby.

And if you truely feel for her, wait for few years....

About the age difference, it wont matter much once she grows up, and you guys are "so-much-into-love" couple:)

All the best:)

Answered by :) S A , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:28 PM on March 28, 2008

I dont think the age difference will appear too big when you are 30 and she is 24. There is no point in worrying about age in a relationship as it is mostly an insignificant issue.

Answered by Anand Holla , an ibibo Specialist, at 11:17 PM on March 27, 2008

she is still a minor so let her gain maturity and adult so that she can think what is good and bad for her.. but the age difference is not too big.

Answered by loony , an ibibo Advisor, at 10:34 PM on March 27, 2008

look she is not matured still so still dont know what is right and wrong... age difference is not a matter but wait till she gets matured and both of you settle then think further.

Answered by rakesh sain , an ibibo Advisor, at 10:03 PM on March 27, 2008

6 years age difference never matters when you really love your partner and can do anything for him/her.but according to me,the girl you love is not much mature to take such a big decision.a 14 year old girl can never make a decision of what type of partner she wants.you cant be sure for her that she would be able to be with you for a long period.she can definetely make her mind change with the change in her age.rest is your decision.

Answered by Sarvesh , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:02 PM on March 27, 2008

Actually the age difference between partners used to be much more, even around 10, in our parents' generation and it was accepted as normal in those days. However there was a certain kind of domination by the husband in the relationship due to his higher age. But in modern times, there is a very less age difference between partners, may be 2 or 3,sometimes of the same age. Since this has become a fashion, you are feeling guilty about ur relationship. Nothing else. If our past generation could live together happily with huge age differences, why can't our present generation do so?.. May be you will come under the minority in the present generation..some may pass comments about you...so what? For love...u can neglect these things...and start living. So there is no problem friend.

Answered by sundar , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:51 PM on March 27, 2008