Pinky, love or friendship is not so simple or like taking a cup of tea. Love is much more than that. Love cannot be one sided. If it is on sided, it is not love. It is infatuation.
You love someone so much, but he does not. So it cannot be a love.
Friendship or element of love grows between two after knowing and understanding each other intimately. Both of them are of similar interests. In true friendship, there are feelings, care and concern, loyalty, mutual respect and confidence on each other. Then an attachment and an attraction grow between the two. And gradually the element of love starts growing. In such situation both become greatly attracted and close to each other. Both become unable to leave each other even for a moment.
In your case, therefore, instead of feeling bad and being upset; see that;
1. Your response and activities attract the boy.
2. He feels free and secured with you.
3. He finds sincerity and in you.
4. He gets confidence on you.
5. There is no scope for suspicion.
6. He finds that you are trustworthy.
And once for all, talk to the boy and know his mind.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
12:08 AM on October 12, 2008
