There is no harm in it because such things happen always in many people as we cannot expect from other people what we want. She may have different feeling for you and she had expressed those feeling to you. You must thanks for her since she had told you everything about this because some girls does not even express their feeling and as result boy later misunderstood her. There is everything special in friendship and carry and make your friendship strong without having any other feeling in your mind, concentrate on your career rather than thinking about her. Career is first love afterward this what today's young generation should keep in mind if they really want to be successful in this today's competitive world.

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 6:09 PM on October 07, 2008

For the moment if she want to have just friendship with u then continue with it. May be some day she may change her view and may accept ur proposal but till then u need to be pateint.And suppose if she rejects den just try to be her best friend for lifetime as ur happiness lies in her happiness.
And one more thing dont worry be happy. Enjoy ur life.

Answered by Bhushan More , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:52 PM on October 03, 2008

Debendra, you are confused about love and friendship. You love the girl; whereas she wants friendship. That means according to you there is a difference between love and friendship. But it is not like that.
You should know what love and friendship is.
Love is a celestial element. It is an instinct which comes with us at birth. Gradually it develops and expands it base in to greater area in a comprehensive way.

This love exists in friendship also. But, love in friendship is devoid of sexual pleasure. Love/friendship does not appear over ground suddenly from the blue. Friendship grows after knowing each other, sharing each other’s feelings, caring and mutual respect. In fact, there is no established formula to make friendship. Friendship requires vision and approach towards life. For friendship both the boy and the girl should be acceptable to each other. In friendship a partner does not expect anything in return from the other friend.
The important aspect in friendship is confidence and trust. Trust is most powerful supporting means in friendship, love, attraction, admiration and, marriage.

In addition, both of you are going back your respective companies within 6 months. Therefore, according to me you be the friend now and wait and see what happens after 6 months.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 8:29 PM on September 30, 2008

SPEAK OUT YOUR HEART TO HER..TELL HER THAT YOU ARE SERIOUS IF SHE REFUSES THAN FORGET & CONCENTRATE ON YOUR CAREER

Answered by Moksha G , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:00 PM on September 29, 2008

i think she is not ready to accept the relationship she want some more time to understand
the relationship that why she aspect friendship from you . i think you have respect his feelings and understanding and give him some time to accepts the realtionship . always be postive with him . after some time definitely she accept your purposal and both of us living happy married life . so best of luck...

Answered by Ravindra M , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:48 AM on September 29, 2008

Hi
From my personal experience approach her if u ppl r good frndz else if u ppl r just colleagues then sort out,coz aftr the partition the pain will b unbearable so try everything u can do(except avoiding Ur job)
Good Luck!!

Answered by Ariket Dutta , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:57 AM on September 29, 2008

u need not do anything!!
sometimes u have to leave everything to god!!
may be that as n wen u get apart,,,it may e she realises her love too and unfortunately if she doesnt then she was never ur love..
if ur love comes back to u then it was ur love otherwise it was never urs......
so dnt worry dont worry dont be arrogant towards her and urself too...

trust god and urself and be optimistic!
takcre!

Answered by Tanu Verma , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:43 PM on September 28, 2008

have her contact no... talk to her daily n purpose her every day... this is the best u can do.... just dont do any thing stupid

Answered by bhartendu at 9:38 PM on September 28, 2008