This effectively means that she is not interested in you. So why do you waste your time after her? my question to you will be to either break up completely with her, or downgrade the relation to just acquaintance, and meet her less than often ... or even talk to her after prolonged time.

It may happen, that due to you giving lesser importance, she will again try to come closer. Or she will also remain the way she is. In that case you can judge, based on your level of interest, to either carry on with the case or remove her from your romantic life forever.

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 5:22 PM on October 13, 2008

first of all never fall in love if see is ignoring u then see another girl 4 u...

Answered by Rohit Rana at 9:33 PM on October 07, 2008

Why you are wasting your time and money phoning the girl who is not interested in you? Suggest you to stop all such activities for some time and even if you see her on the road try to ignore her, don't show to her that you have interest in you, and I am sure when she sees the sudden change in your behaviour like not phoning her or ignoring her then she herself will try to contact you either directly via phone or through her friend. Just wait and watch

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 8:24 PM on October 05, 2008

This is not an unusual behaviour in case of a girl. Her behaviour towards you is as like as a common girl; not as your girlfriend.
You love the girl so much. You cannot leave. But the girl, as you told, avoids you. She does not have any attraction on you. In such a situation what you do?

Look, friendship is not so simple and easy like taking a cup of tea. It is something more. Friendship means a relation between two. Both should be known intimately to each other. Both of them are with similar interests.
In true friendship, there is sharing of feelings, caring and concern, loyalty, love and confidence on each other. Therefore, a strong attachment grows between the two.
In friendship, trust is the vital element. Without trust, friendship cannot last long. When trust is lost, every thing lost.

On the other hand, girls are selective in making friendship. To become a friend with a boy, a girl first sees that she can have confidence, security and trust on him. Once she is confirmed and satisfied with all those traits in a boy, she expresses desire to make friendship with him; otherwise she show her back.
Now you can imagine your relation with the girl, where it stands. According to me, you should keep a relation with a girl who neglects you.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 11:30 PM on October 04, 2008

she is noe in a position to accept or decline u,u try ur best to accept u,try smoothly,my best wishes,

Answered by Jj S , an ibibo Citizen, at 6:01 AM on October 04, 2008

Well buddy,jst relax! It happens...May b she would b thnkng abt u n found that smthng cn go wrong in future,or may b u by mistake hd hurt her...Hv patience...Give her smtime...Dont contact her for sm days!N than finally go to her n talk 2 her...U cn go n talk directly but step by step method works manytimes!So good luck

Answered by Kanchan , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:59 PM on October 03, 2008

Dont take any chances.... dont make assumptions which do not have proper backing.... it could simply be that she is actually very busy and is not able to attend your calls. It could be that she wants to speak to you but there could be restricctions in her house where she is not alllowed to speak to male friends., it could be that she loves you but she is trying to hold herself back due to any reason..... or it could simply be that she does not love you but respects you as a friend and does not want to say no to you and hence is trying to hint you by ignoring you...

The best way to know what she feels is firstly try to spend some time with her... and let her start feeling comfortable with you as a friend. Let her open out to you and when you feel the right time has come, just tell your feelings to her... Also let her know in advance taht whatever her decision and answer will be, you will be ok with it and you will respect her decision.

This will reduce all scope for misunderstanding and clear things out between the 2 of you. Keep your fingers crossed and hope for the best... ALL THE BEST

Answered by Mehul Shroff , an ibibo Specialist, at 11:01 PM on October 03, 2008

ask her polietly....that she luvs u or not......thn u'll get answer.....otherwise forget her without telling her

Answered by Rakhi Lovely at 8:16 PM on October 03, 2008

Forget her becouse she is not intrested,love is ur own feeling dont force her to love u.

Answered by Riti , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:02 PM on October 03, 2008

IF SHE IS TRYING TO IGNORE YOU THEN FORGET HER JOIN ANOTHER BANDWAGON. THERE ARE MANY FISHES IN THE POND. WOULD YOU BE HAPPY WITH HER IF IT IS ONE SIDED?

Answered by Viraf Aga , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:59 PM on October 03, 2008