the girl whom you love has faith trust and confident on you. He takes you as a good friend who will share her problems and give some advise to her. you are really lucky that she feels you worthy of her confience. please dont show you love to her or express your inner heart to her. be gently and kind to her and behave in a matured manner which will bring one day love and closer friendship.

Answered by Sachin Samy , an ibibo Specialist, at 11:58 PM on October 14, 2008

Some girls are comfortable discussing their problems and want their partners to share their woes. This is not unnatural, yet the guy may get uncomfortable. You are lucky that she is sharing her discomforts the way she will do to someone very close.

Be patient with her, and understand her thoughts. Help her, console her ... and also give her the helping hand that she deserves. And don't try to demotivate her, instead try to lift her spirits. It's upto you to encourage her to think positive and share them with you as well. All the best!

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 5:46 PM on October 13, 2008

The way she behaves with you seems that she has the faith and confidence on you. She might be looking at you as her best friend, don't expose your feeling of love to her, in such situation many a time girl herself confess her love to boy. Hope one fine day she may confess that she loves you. Till then behave normally with her.

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 12:30 PM on October 06, 2008

dont mix up two things.She may be calling you and discussing her problems with you because she takes you as a good friend and that you are always there for her. She may not be looking at you as her life partner or should I say lover just yet.... and dont take that topic out too often right now or else she may stop talking to you altogether and you may end up losing her a s a friend too.
Since she is so close to you, the chances are bright that eventually she will realise how important you are in her life and how much she needs you... but give it time. Just be there for her as a friend and wait for it to translate into love in her mind too... all the best

Answered by Mehul Shroff , an ibibo Specialist, at 9:20 AM on October 05, 2008

This is not an unusual behaviour in case of a girl. Her behaviour towards you is as like as a common girl; not as your girlfriend.
You love the girl so much. You cannot leave. But the girl, as you told, avoids you. She does not have any attraction on you. In such a situation what you do?

Look, friendship is not so simple and easy like taking a cup of tea. It is something more. Friendship means a relation between two. Both should be known intimately to each other. Both of them are with similar interests.
In true friendship, there is sharing of feelings, caring and concern, loyalty, love and confidence on each other. Therefore, a strong attachment grows between the two.
In friendship, trust is the vital element. Without trust, friendship cannot last long. When trust is lost, every thing lost.

On the other hand, girls are selective in making friendship. To become a friend with a boy, a girl first sees that she can have confidence, security and trust on him. Once she is confirmed and satisfied with all those traits in a boy, she expresses desire to make friendship with him; otherwise she show her back.
According to me, you talk to the girl once again and know her mind.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 7:01 AM on October 05, 2008

well u really have to talk to her. if you dont talk to her, she wont know u at all, and therefore cant love you. you have got to talk to her, so then she can get to know you before letting her decide if she likes you. just say hi to her, then start talking to her. make conversation, ask her how she is, what shes been doing, what she did for the weekend, then after she answers that ask more questions based on her answer. she cant LOVE you without knowing you. so let her get to know you. dont directly ask her for friendship, just be a friend. become a friend. then she can find out for herself if she loves you, and she'll let u know if she does.

Answered by Shampa 2007 , an ibibo Specialist, at 11:35 PM on October 04, 2008

Oh u can get ur answer by that girl n not any1 else buddy!How cn any1 tell u whether that girl luvs u!So go n ask her directly,if she share her probs,it means she trust u right?So b confident n ask her...N do tell me what happen!

Answered by Kanchan , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:04 PM on October 04, 2008

If she just shares her problem, it doesn't show that she loves you.She may think you as a good friend with whom she can share anything but yes if she is possessive then there may be love.If you have seen Jane tu ya jane naa then you can easily understand the situation

Answered by Kalim Khan , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:08 PM on October 04, 2008

well this is a universeal question my dear, whether some one loves some one or not, even after loving some one for many years, you wake up, and find that now u no longer that person.
So to know if she loves u or not, give some time to that girl, and the time the real mystery creater will tell you the truth.
But if you really to be with that person, in any situation either friends, boyfriend, husband,
always try to beside her, share her feelings, try to be kind with her, and listen to her, but that does not mean you carry all her burdens on your shoulders, because these days people can take advantage of you,. so dont take that much risk,
love is risk taking job, you may get success or loss
so take a calculated risk, beaware and alert,
if she loves you, she will care for you, fight for you and always talk to you
all the best raju

Answered by V V , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:01 PM on October 04, 2008

Well,,, May be the girl thinks that you are the right person with whom she can share all her problems. That does'nt mean she loves you. She shares all her problems with you tat means she has trusted you very much. When she has trusted u so much then it says she cares for you and also believe in you very much. You might have the feeling of love in your mind but she might not have!!.. Try asking her what type of boy she is looking for etc etc... Do this very casually...
If u dont act wisely and timely, may be one day u'll hv to bare all the responsibilities of getting her married... U'll hv to forcefully keep smiling at her wedding. Am not teling this to hurt u but its a fact!!!!!!...
Asking her directly whether she loves u or not may not work well bcoz imagine she's not in love with u then u will permanently lose her for keeping such things in mind. Keep all these things in mind and take a rite decision.
Dude it is a boy who needs to do a proposal. U cant expect her to do tat. So go ahead..
Propose her... I'll teach u a proposing style, use it if u like it....
WHAT, IF I PROPOSE YOU:-)... Just say this and give a smile. If she's really interested u'll get a good immediate response.
GOOD LUCK:-)

Answered by John Ronald , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:56 PM on October 04, 2008