A Girl That Doesn't Love You Back - A lot of the advice here is on par; listen to these folks...they know their stuff. The best thing I can recomend is that if you're in love with a girl who doesn't feel the same way or express the same feelings to you...you should move on to someone who is interested. Point blank. It's simple, less painful, and much more effective. If you get into a friendship with you're "sweetie" you'll just put yourself through hell with you're heart burning to share this beautiful 'love' with her while having to hear of every other guy who win's her heart and attention. You'll always be second string with her; and if she knows you care for her and is playing you (like what was done to me); she'll just drag it all out and you're heart will be beaten beyond recognition. If a girl likes you, you'll know it...she'll make sure you do...trust me. If you show her you're back and find someone else she'll make efforts to get back into you're line of sight. Have some dignity and don't let her manipulate you or you're feelings. Best of luck!
* ** *** **** ***** ****** ******* ******** I couldn't find a way to post this as an 'answer' so I am 'improving' the existing answer. The best way to get a girl to love you/like you from a girl�s perspective- and this has actually happened to me.
I suggest dating someone else and making sure she knows. Women like to know that the men they are with are desirable. That is how my current boyfriend got me. :)Try it out and let me know, I think there is a 85% percent success rate with this one!!
Love is only a feeling. There is nothing complicated about it. If you love her and she doesn't love you then dont fight it. If it's going to happen it will happen according to her. That paragraph above about dating someone else to make sure she sees you are desirable is non sense. You can't creat love, it creates itself.
* It's not always possible, sometimes it just isn't "meant to be" however much you want it to. But if it is possible, here are a few pointers. These are the main reasons i fell for my present partner, and they defiantly influence feelings. a girl's
First, talk to her. If you want to be in a relationship with someone, especially if you're thinking life-long partners, you have to be able to talk to them. So call her, and have a chat - don't be afraid of looking like a fool, or having odd interests, it isn't an off-put unless they're obscene. Girls like being with men they feel they can communicate with, and it has more of an effect on desirability than looks or money.
Second, don't try to buy her off. No girl will respect a guy who spends all his money on her, in-fact it may make her suspicious of your intentions. If you see something that you know she will love, which is not tacky or extravagant, then buy it, by all means, but know that it should be seen as something special. Often men use presents as a way to manipulate their partners, or hide deceit, so many women will see them as distasteful, particularly a bunch of white roses (don't ask why, it just seems to be on all my girl-y friends' least-desirable-gift-list)
Third and last, be with her. It may seem obvious, but many men do not do this - when you see her, don't fill up the air with inane chatter or movements, stay still. It made the most massive impact on my feelings for my present partner, that he could just be there, holding me. This is also the best way to tell if you truly love her; if she is right for you, then being with her, still and quiet, should be the most comfortable, blissful, and overall right feeling you can ever experience. If it is, she will feel it too, and she will love you, even if she does not realize herself.
Good luck, may she be "the one" for you!
* This is a complicated question. Why do you think you "love" her? And does she not love you because she's had the oppo
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8:57 AM on July 05, 2008
