Kunal., from your question it looks like that there has been a misunderstanding between you two. You asked her not to talk to a particular boy. She took exception to that. As a result she is not responding to you. That should not happen in friendship. Friendship grows after knowing and understanding each other. In such a situation, when you asked her something, the girl should have asked you why you forbidden her. But in stead, she started behaving in a different way. It means, she has not taken you in to her confidence.
It is not the question of suspicion. This is quite natural for a boy, when his girlfriend talks to somebody, he does not like it. For instance, if she really loves you and you start talking to some other girl, would she like it?
Therefore, I should like to say that your girl has not done the right thing with you.
Once for all, you talk to her and know her mind.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
12:42 PM on October 05, 2008