A Girl That Doesn't Love You Back

Here is advice:

- A lot of the advice here is on par; listen to these folks...they know their stuff. The best thing I can recomend is that if you're in love with a girl who doesn't feel the same way or express the same feelings to you...you should move on to someone who is interested. Point blank. It's simple, less painful, and much more effective. If you get into a friendship with you're "sweetie" you'll just put yourself through hell with you're heart burning to share this beautiful 'love' with her while having to hear of every other guy who win's her heart and attention. You'll always be second string with her; and if she knows you care for her and is playing you (like what was done to me); she'll just drag it all out and you're heart will be beaten beyond recognition. If a girl likes you, you'll know it...she'll make sure you do...trust me. If you show her you're back and find someone else she'll make efforts to get back into you're line of sight. Have some dignity and don't let her manipulate you or you're feelings. Best of luck!

* ** *** **** ***** ****** ******* ******** I couldn't find a way to post this as an 'answer' so I am 'improving' the existing answer. The best way to get a girl to love you/like you from a girl�s perspective- and this has actually happened to me.

I suggest dating someone else and making sure she knows. Women like to know that the men they are with are desirable. That is how my current boyfriend got me. :)Try it out and let me know, I think there is a 85% percent success rate with this one!!

Love is only a feeling. There is nothing complicated about it. If you love her and she doesn't love you then dont fight it. If it's going to happen it will happen according to her. That paragraph above about dating someone else to make sure she sees you are desirable is non sense. You can't creat love, it creates itself.


* It's not always possible, sometimes it just isn't "meant to be" however much you want it to. But if it is possible, here are a few pointers. These are the main reasons i fell for my present partner, and they defiantly influence feelings. a girl's

First, talk to her. If you want to be in a relationship with someone, especially if you're thinking life-long partners, you have to be able to talk to them. So call her, and have a chat - don't be afraid of looking like a fool, or having odd interests, it isn't an off-put unless they're obscene. Girls like being with men they feel they can communicate with, and it has more of an effect on desirability than looks or money.

Second, don't try to buy her off. No girl will respect a guy who spends all his money on her, in-fact it may make her suspicious of your intentions. If you see something that you know she will love, which is not tacky or extravagant, then buy it, by all means, but know that it should be seen as something special. Often men use presents as a way to manipulate their partners, or hide deceit, so many women will see them as distasteful, particularly a bunch of white roses (don't ask why, it just seems to be on all my girl-y friends' least-desirable-gift-list)

Third and last, be with her. It may seem obvious, but many men do not do this - when you see her, don't fill up the air with inane chatter or movements, stay still. It made the most massive impact on my feelings for my present partner, that he could just be there, holding me. This is also the best way to tell if you truly love her; if she is right for you, then being with her, still and quiet, should be the most comfortable, blissful, and overall right feeling you can ever experience. If it is, she will feel it too, and she will love you, even if she does not realize herself.

Good luck, may she be "the one" for you!

* This is a complicated question. Why do you think you "love" her? And does she not l

Answered by KHURSHEED , an ibibo Master, at 9:08 AM on July 05, 2008

I think that you are living in a fool’s paradise with no proper inclination of finding a true love in your life. Don’t fall out for something that is unachievable and unreachable for you. It will be big time waste and all together disappointing in all ways. Do concentrate on something that is more useful and likeable in life. Do find the same love in some other girl and create your world of happiness with her.

Answered by Satyajit , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:59 PM on July 04, 2008

just keep interacting with her as a good friend u know the consequences.........but over the time things may change BUT u need to know that this is a 50-50 chances and u shld be ready for both
OR
if u are unable to face the seperation later then better be far away from getting commited and just be friends.....

Answered by Keerthi , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:36 AM on July 01, 2008

I heard: Love transcends all barriers. Dekh, tujhe Manzil nahi mil rahi hai to iske matlub teri irado mein kuchh kami hai. Break open all the doors (inhibitions of your mind). Tell her that you cannot live without her. She will be yours.

Answered by Archan Deb , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:08 PM on June 30, 2008

forget and try a new gal

Answered by Ravichandran , an ibibo Advisor, at 3:47 PM on June 30, 2008

hi dear...when u hav said no future for u both...so its not of use...so don waste ur time...indulge urself in some other works,so that u may b far for her thoughts...take care

Answered by vikram , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:27 PM on June 30, 2008

Love is such a sublime act which does not demand any earthly possession. If you really love her you can easily come out from all sorts of trouble that hinder your love to that girl who is a kind of commited'. But only you know 'How deep is your love'.

Answered by Subrata , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:12 PM on June 30, 2008

See to be addicted is not bad. But to make it ur own habit is bad. and plus when u knew it that there is no future to ur realtionship than going behind is should be controlled & search out for an option what will be better in ur life cause life is not so easy to process

Answered by zuwa , an ibibo Advisor, at 1:15 PM on June 30, 2008

try to busy

Answered by Harshwardhan , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:15 PM on June 30, 2008

It seems that you are very much in love with the girl.
But Ravi, my dear, where everything is beyond your reach and the situation is beyond your control, then why you should be so disheartened. You are a sensible boy. Think for while. You will have to face the realities of life. You gain strength and confidence in you. Forget her like a bad dream. With God’s grace, you would get a better and a lovable girl. Have patience.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 11:22 PM on June 29, 2008