I suppose if the situation permits and it does not hamper their married life, one should speak them to his wife. As the truth to come open one day, why not he himself speak it to his wife. At first there may be some misunderstandings but later his wife will come normal and be happy at his action. Regarding sex with other women, I think it is better to keep to himself as it offends women a lot regarding her husband getting physical to someone else.
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Baby Bora
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5:45 PM on August 24, 2008