Riya, I must appreciate your honest disclosure. But on the other hand I am thinking of your position, which made you to ask this question. For how many years are you in love, it is not stated.
Love should not be assumed as conditional. Love is a matter of understanding, sharing of feelings and true commitments to each other. Love grows after knowing each other, sharing feelings, caring and mutual understanding. Love requires vision and approach towards life. Both should be acceptable to each other.
The important aspect in love is confidence and trust earned by both. In true love, one does not expect anything in return from the other, except love.
In the circumstances, when your boyfriend wants your body and you are denying with your reasons, the situation becomes embarrassing.
There are two options, now, one is to talk to him and apprise him the real facts of your denial. And if he does not appreciate your genuine ground, you will have to take a bold step, otherwise. Because, enforcement brings bitterness and resentment in love. What bold step you can take, you decide yourself.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
1:07 PM on July 01, 2008