If they had the right choice as their partner then will advice them to have the control on their emotion and will speak with the family member and allow them to get married. But if the person they are in love is of bad character then will tell them what they are doing is wrong and even after telling and requesting not to meet again, they meet will tell them that they are going to repent in future.

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 8:39 PM on August 05, 2008

it depends on the situation,if he/she is not an adult then i would like to know the situation and advice accordingly,i would like them to be safe and not get hurted by anyone due to ignorance.i would meet the person whom he/she is getting involved with and try to know if the person is genuine or just playing around.even if he/she is adult i would try to make sure about their safety,mentally and physically and give suggestions if needed and tell him/her that i am there incase he/she needs me in future and make him/her comfortable to discuss anything they feel like about it but wont force myself on them just because they are younger to me and let them have their own space.

Answered by arun agarwal , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:18 PM on August 01, 2008

I will certainly advise to continue. Love is a feeling that comes naturally to a person who needs the companionship. I can, at best, judge the person whom the sibling is in love, yet that will be just a suggestion. I am always in favour of supporting in case of a love, as long as it is done without hurting others.

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 4:35 PM on July 30, 2008

i will advise to his/her that stay out of it...else u r gonna hurt soon...

Answered by Ishaan Goel , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:41 PM on July 28, 2008

Dear first i will ask my younger sister/brother about his/her love.And even talk to his/her love if i find him really true and trustworthy i wud advice her to be with him only and will jst convince my parents...I wn't discourage her to do love as me myself beleive in love..And even though my parents are too strict in this matter i will try to manage and convince them...:-)

Answered by Gayatri , an ibibo Advisor, at 7:01 PM on July 26, 2008

Everyone has the right to take their own decisions.

Answered by anu uppal , an ibibo Citizen, at 6:34 PM on July 26, 2008

When you find out your own sister or brother in love with someone, you should not get shocked or horrified. It is sensitive thing which needs to be settled amicably with lot of understanding.

Answered by Sachin Samy , an ibibo Specialist, at 5:24 PM on July 26, 2008

if anyone in my family would have fallen in love then i will ask him or her about their love.

if the one whom my family member loves the good person and if that person is able to be with one of my own family member then i will not disturb them.

i will advice them to become independent and then get married.

Answered by KHURSHEED , an ibibo Master, at 9:49 PM on July 25, 2008

If he or she is eligible for her then no question of intimidating, we should show a green signal

Answered by Praveen Amin , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:26 PM on July 25, 2008

He/She is also a human,Even they have the right to love someone in life.If both are seriously in love and can lead a life together without any problems I am down with that.

Answered by sidoghosh , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:06 PM on July 25, 2008