Wah, you never talked to her ... and now you have decided to propose her. Is proposal a way to talk or a route to know her? I am too confused. In case you want to have her as your partner, why don't you introduce her and make her a friend first? all remaining things will come later.

Believe in reality and practical thoughts. This life is not something from movies that you live that life. You have to believe that she can only respond to you if she talks and discusses and exchanges life with you. And you have to give her an opportunity. Please don't force her to accept your proposal, in fact, make life simpler for her and take her friendship first. Rest can follow later.

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 5:44 PM on October 13, 2008

This is an unusual love affair, my dear Sunil. Both you live in the same area. You love the girl. But you never had talked to her. Now, you sought the reply from girls only.

However, according to me you will have to shun your fear to express your feelings to the girl. Reasons being love grows in friendship. Friendship means a relation between you two. Both of you should know each other clearly, closely and intimately. You should talk and understand each other, which create affection, attachment and respect each other.

Although the girl is your neighbour, it would be necessary to know the mind of the girl.
Because, girl’s decision would be the final. Girls normally do not respond instantaneously. However, they play the role of their choice. If the girl is confident and trust on you, she would show her indication of attachment to become your friend.
Then you will be able to propose happily.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 6:04 PM on October 05, 2008

u guys know each othre frm 8years and thats a bit long period!!
try to tell her immediately that u like her!!

u need to be very calm and there is no other way out other than preparing urself mentally that u have to propose her u have to exactlt define what ur heart feels for her!! u really have to gather ur strength!! and since u guys knw each other for abt 8years her reply shall be based on all these years wen she has seen u noticed u or may be inquired abt u!!


so just be chill prepare urself mentally frm heart that now finally u just have to go and say everything..but be chill in a relaxed mood and everything nicely so that she is convinced in just one go onlyy!!
all the best!!
godbless!!
trut god ur love and go for it!!

Answered by Tanu Verma , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:49 PM on October 04, 2008

If u feel that girl love u or respect u so go and say honestly as a gentleman...dont waste one more minute.........and leave dicision to her.

Answered by Riti , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:12 PM on October 04, 2008