Normally a girl is introspective in nature. She does not initiate to express her attachment or affection so easily. She observes first the nature, attitude of the boy. When she finds the boy sincere, respectful and trustworthy she feels an urge of meeting the boy. Because, with such a boy, she believes, would give her confidence and security. Under such circumstances, the behaviour of the girl towards the boy would be totally different. She would be alert, careful, initiative and very eager to spend more time with boy. On congenial atmosphere and opportunity she may express her mind. At that stage, the boy would be able to know that the girl is in love or just an infatuation.
True love is a matter of understanding, true sharing of feelings and true commitments to each others. Love does not appear over ground suddenly from the blue. Love grows after knowing each other, sharing feelings, caring and mutual understanding. In fact, there is no established formula to acquire love. Love requires vision and approach towards life. Both should be acceptable to each other. In true love, lover does not expect in anything in return except love.
The important aspect in love is self-confidence and trust earned by both. Confidence begets trust. Trust is most powerful supporting means for love, attraction, admiration and, marriage.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
9:48 PM on September 30, 2008
