Indulge in somethings that kills the memory about the person you loved. It's not that easy. You need to really have a great conviction to do this. Allow yourself to dedicate your life to things like books, music and some other pastimes as your heart desires.

The other way is to get new friends. In case there are acquaintances, the more the better. In one word, do come out of the shell that you created around your love life. And break it for all possible purposes. The sooner you will do it, the quicker you will forget him.

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 4:21 PM on October 14, 2008

Yes it is difficult to forget someone whome you loved so much. sometimes cirucumstance demands this. You must concentrate on your work or some other things like yoga ad meditation so that you dont remain idle and start thinking of the past . These things will fade gradually. please you work hard in your duties or do some studies and overcome this. new friends and new relationship will fade your past.

Answered by Sachin Samy , an ibibo Specialist, at 6:07 PM on October 12, 2008

Varun, I am confused whether you want to forget or do not like to forget. Your question is contradictory in meaning. In love it is very much difficult to forget the loved one.
But, still one decodes to forget one’s loved one, there may be some reasons behind. Therefore, to forget it would take some time and then gradually fade away from the mind like a night fall after twilight.

For that,

1. Believe that time will take care of your feelings of separation.
2. Take the feelings as dreams.
3. Avoid as far as practicable to keep yourself away from that thinking.
4. Keep busy in some other works.
5. Read books of interest.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 12:09 AM on October 12, 2008

if u love someone then why u want to forget him/her.its little bit difficult to do in my openion soo just be happy always and try not to think of his/her slf soo after some days u can feel be comfortable but in this world no one can forget the person whom we love a lot soo we can just fad the feeling of the person in our daily life.

Answered by manoj kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:49 AM on October 11, 2008

Hi Varun Pandey,
I think your facing same problem like me.
To forget the person ypu like the most is me have somany ways to tell u.
If u dont mind to forget the person you love most, we should go in some wat negative manner.
Think that he is not equal to u. That means in showing care, honesty, responsibility, etc.,. Think that he is not equal with u in showing the thngs mentioned above. Join in a new job. Go for a walk, jogging, yoga. Read good books, magazines, and write short stories etc., Chill out with friends dont sit ideal, for few months dont be alone. Spend some time with your parents and ur siblings.
Visit some amusent places so that you can recharge ur life.
Definitely another person will be waiting who loves u a lot. Dont think that lost thing is more precious. Forbidden fruits are sour. Think tat he is sour and u cnat lead life with tat person and now its for u to find a soul mate.
Cheer up,
Take care,
Bye.

Answered by Only Youth , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:28 PM on October 10, 2008

No one can forget their love, but just busy your life in your goal or favourite activity.
Love IS Life. And how can anyone forget to live his LIFE.
Just do what i said you can come out from your problem.

Answered by John Patel , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:46 PM on October 10, 2008

you can never forget a person you truely loved. But yes if you adjust with the fact that life moves on or probably find soemthing to distract you. Then yes time will make it better if not mend it completly.

Answered by Raina Pawar , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:22 PM on October 10, 2008

The simplest way to get yourself engaged in some activities like joining Gym, clibs, mixing up with friend, concentrating on your works/studies etc. And the best part would be to find the new GF and spend the time with her

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 12:01 PM on October 10, 2008

just stress to other works.wenever her things disturb u,just think wat she did to u.so go on.

Answered by Rehan Khan at 11:27 AM on October 10, 2008