She married someone WEAK? How can you ever think that
she still loves you after she has been married?Did she marry
out of sympathy or what?Move on maan this is not what you
need to do runnning after a married woman.

Answered by Peter , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:51 PM on May 27, 2008

You should not be a cause for happening of any unwanted incidents in her home.... You have to decide...according to need of your girl friend and maintance of peacefull situtation in her life, for every thing you are resposcible...You have to be very carefull and very causious......

Answered by laksh man , an ibibo Advisor, at 4:20 PM on May 23, 2008

I am not sure in case both have the passion for each other, how did she get married to someone else? Anyway, in case she did, let her enjoy her life and family. You can, at best, try to maintain a very cordial and affectionate relation with her. In case that is not possible, then please try to keep her in your thoughts only, never get possessive about her. Good luck!!

Answered by idlemind , an ibibo Master, at 6:53 PM on May 07, 2008

Hi Ankush, If she already got married, then you must try forget her completely, otherwise it harm her married life also. I know that it is not so easy. but you have to do it. Sadness and happiness are the states of our mind and its depends on will power. So stop thinking about your past and think about the pleasant things of your life. Don't be idle and make yourself busy. Pass more time with your friends, read some good books, watch movies. Try to live your life for a greater purpose.

Answered by Ashok , an ibibo Advisor, at 8:55 PM on May 01, 2008

Sta away....and do not contact and do not allow her to contact.

Answered by Samuel , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:42 PM on May 01, 2008

leave her alone

Answered by Dinesh Shah at 1:04 PM on May 01, 2008

forget ur past and move on in ur life for better reasons to smile, wish u luck

Answered by poonam , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:40 PM on April 30, 2008

you must move on in life as your girlfriend has got married to someone else...its very difficult to distant yourself from a person you happen to love but its the best thing to can do for yourself and her.no matter how hard you both try to be just friends the emotions will keep coming up and disturb your and her life.i hope you would not want to create any problems in her just started new life as a wife of someone else if you really love her,just have an open and honest talk with her and part your ways....enjoy.

Answered by jerk , an ibibo Advisor, at 6:16 PM on April 30, 2008

I feel very sorry for your disappointment.

Mr. Ankush paul, please do understand one thing, if you both really love each other truly how could both of imagine a life with out each other??? Ok there may be lot of reasons behind you love situation which no one know. But i cannot accept this excuse, B'coz a true love should try to win all impossiblities. If you both really love each other, then how can she marry other person....... it is worst thing in world 2 do; To betray a boy who really loved her. In this case you are still thinking of her but she married some one else......dont be fooled ok .... From this point of time every thing between U & Her is over dont ever mind her no matter if she really feel sorry for that are she is mourning for that. Her life is fixed ....you think about your life. Mind you Ankush, for you your parents and your blood born relatives are mare important in this situation than thinking of her any more.
I also know that advising is easy but following is difficult. But you have 2 do dear. I sincerely say U that you will get better girl than that. Also you should possibly live away from her for ever such that you are not seeing her any more in your entire life.

Life is more than just mourning for the lost Love. Try to shift your mind towards some thing which gives peace of mind for you or you may take up some sports activity to heal your selves.

But be carefull next time if choose any girl yourself or through your parents, she should be better than the girl who left you .

Answered by Padmanaban at 1:04 PM on April 30, 2008

forget her only this is better idea 4 both of u

Answered by bhupendra , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:34 AM on April 30, 2008