Suruchi, it is surprising how you could continue such a relation for 3 years with a boy who now refusing you outright that he is not committed to you. How he could change his mind at the instance of his mother.
It proves that your friendship was not base on
1. Knowing intimately to each other.
2. Understanding properly.
3. With similar interest and aspiration.
4. Sharing of feelings, caring and concern.
5. Loyalty.
6. Belief and confidence on each other.
7. And on trust.
In friendship, trust is the vital element. Without trust, friendship cannot last long. When trust is lost, every thing lost.
In such a situation where your boyfriend outright declined, you better leave him before it brings further suffering to you.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
11:31 PM on October 04, 2008