Rizwan, you are new member to Ibibo. You are most welcome.
Ibibo is a platform where you can search and have friends and also girlfriends. But that does not mean that girls are readily available here and would immediately respond to your advertisement like call and become your friends. If at all, some of them become your friends also through this question, those friendships would not be for long time. Because both of you would be unknown to each other.
Before making friendship, you should know what a friendship is. Friendship means a relation between two. Both should be known intimately to each other. Both of them are with similar interests, mutual respect. Thereafter, a strong attachment grows between the two.
In true friendship, there are feelings, caring and concern, loyalty, love, confidence on each other. In friendship, trust is the vital element. Without trust, true friendship cannot last long. When trust is lost, every thing lost.
On the other hand, girls are selective. To become a friend with a boy, a girl would first observe whether she can have confidence, security and trust on him. She would first confirm and satisfied, and then she may think of making friendship.
I hope, you would get a girlfriend; that too a good girlfriend. But my suggestion to you is that since you are a new member; continue for some time in this forum. See for yourself the realities and feasibilities of it. This is also a platform of multifarious activities like questions, answers, blogging, opinion making etc. Involve in those activities. And those activities would attract other members in Ibibo including girls. Hopefully, thereafter, girls may offer friendship to you. That will give an option for your choice. Now you need not so much.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
6:49 PM on October 05, 2008
