Try to meet her, talk her and extend your friendship in a decent way. Try to behave nicely and like a gentleman with her, impress her, invite her for coffee, give some present on her birthday or flower on some special occassion like Valantine day etc.

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 5:54 PM on October 06, 2008

she is not any product that want at any cost , she is girls and you want she then you have create love in his heart for you . uska dil jetlo kaise bhi.

Answered by Ravindra M , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:50 PM on October 06, 2008

Involving a cost with getting your beloved is probably the weakest point of any relationship. You can't control a person's needs and desires, and definitely not force someone into a relation. Please don't be under the impression that she will love you since you love her. To each, his (or her) own. Grow up and show that you care, you want to respect her and share her life with her. Only then will she be eager to continue with you.

Be a friend first, and remove all other desires from your mind. Be a good friend, and then see if she has changed. Let her also make a decision, else she will lose her independent life.

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 3:42 PM on October 03, 2008

u have a crush on her... and u love her.... mann ur confused !!!
Just give yourself some time and firstly get it cleared in your mind if you really lover her or not. It could very easily be just a infatuation which you are mistaking for love...
You will realise that you are in love when you stop getting the feeling that you want her at any cost... dude, love means giving and giving without expecting anything in return. If you really love her then just be there for her always and hope that she realises your love for her.

True love is unconditional dude.. dont try to win her heart by wrong things... u might get her easily by doing that but you will have the risk of losing her as easily too and that will be more painful.

Answered by Mehul Shroff , an ibibo Specialist, at 4:06 PM on October 02, 2008

If you love her then keep that but how can you say that you want to get her at any cost. Dear love is a feeling you can not get it at any cost. So try to win her heart. Respect her and if she is not at your side then forget her and just be a good friend of her.

Answered by Dr Ashutosh , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:17 PM on October 02, 2008

try to impress her.......u need to take help of any of her freind.....try to represent yrself as like she wants.....if u want more suggestions then give me her details...

Answered by mukesh kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:51 AM on October 02, 2008

try and befriend her closest saheli!

Answered by Lt Col Rajes , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:28 PM on October 01, 2008

Avilash, there is no doubt that you have a doubt in your mind about your affair with the girl. You said your feeling a crush. If it is so the answer is already with you.
Probably you have another doubt about the meaning of crush. Crush in love means an intense temporary, attraction, craze, passion, fascination and love feeling of a person.
Hence, if it is a crush, you have the feeling; not the girl. The girl is not inclined to you. That is why she does not talk to you.

Before making friendship, you must know what friendship is. Friendship means a relation between two. Both should know and understand each other intimately. Both of you should be of similar interests, mutual respect. There should be confidence, security and trust in between you two. Thereafter only an attachment grows between the two.

In true friendship, there are feelings, caring and concern, loyalty, love, confidence on each other. In friendship, trust is the vital element. Without trust, true friendship cannot last long. When trust is lost, every thing lost.

Moreover, girls are selective. To become a friend with a boy, a girl would first see that she can have confidence, security and trust on him. Once she finds all those traits in a boy, she would prefer to make friendship.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 7:52 PM on October 01, 2008