Even you were in love, when the reality comes, your girl falls back. She could not face her parents and the society. That is the most probable consequence of today’s love.
From her angle, her decision may be right. She cannot protest for you.
Therefore, you simply forget her, assuming your relation as a bad dream

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 9:42 PM on July 04, 2008

She is partially right. In case she can convince her parents as well before marrying, it will be much better. May be there are a few things that parents dislike. See to it that she is able to correct those and get back to her parents. No parent likes to think wrong about their kids, it is just that we have to give some and get back some and move on! All the best!!

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 6:34 PM on June 20, 2008

just find another one

Answered by ayan biswas , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:43 AM on June 13, 2008

IT IS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. THE GIRL WILL JUST GET HAPPILY MARRIED.
I REALLY FEEL FOR THE BOY, BUT LIFE TEACHES PRACTICAL LESSONS AND THE BOY SHOULD PROVE HIMSELF BY SHINING IN HIS CAREER AND MARRYING BY HIS PARENTS CHOICE.

Answered by swati lohani , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:26 AM on June 12, 2008

the girl is correct.the entire family hangs if a girl brings bad name to the family.but not a family cares when a boy runs out of his house.

Answered by ravichandran , an ibibo Advisor, at 6:18 AM on June 12, 2008

She is absolutely right in her own way, because parents should always come first. The parents took their whole life in bringing up the child, if they want some thing from their child...a little bit of happiness and she is ready to do that by sacrificing her own choice, what is the problem. That is very brave indeed on her part and her never dying love for her parents. I appreciate such fearless and devoted spirit. having such a daughter is miracle these days in India, having such cultural and societal value is indeed praiseworthy. So my dear friend, please dont feel disheartened for what she did. She was absolute right in her act.
Now about the boy, he should feel proud of having such a girl as her friend for life, what not if he could not marry her. they both can certainly remain as good friends for life.
However, if he can pursue her and her parents and make them understand his feelings with out any fight or animosity, then it is well and good, they both can be togather in that sense. the boy should muster enough courage to talk with his own parents and convince them for marrying the girl of his choice before asking them to talk to the girl's parents. That will be an ideal situation. if he fails in convincing his parents, then he dont have any authority to feel bad about what the girl did.

Answered by N B , an ibibo Advisor, at 4:49 PM on June 11, 2008

if she is not in love than correct cause we should listen to our parents. From inborn to adolsecent they brought up us with lots of difficulty. And if the boy is good than definately her parents will also agree to her. I personally feel she is right if she is not in love. I f she is in love than better both should try to convienve their parents which is most important cause in near future so that no body get disturb.

Answered by zuwa , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:50 PM on June 11, 2008

no yar parents is god for us.they give u a track to build up ur life.they fullfill ur needs,whatever u want.boys meet u after that,it may be ur attractions.ur not killing ur feelings.kabhi kabhi dusre ko khush karne k liya hume dukhi hon hota hai.aur zara socho tum us boy se sadi kar ke khus hogi,to sad hona wala ki number zayada hogi,ek ki khusi k liya sabko ko dukhi karna galat hai..maa bap ka karz hota hai hum par unke bhi arman hota hai ..so pls just forgot that boy and make feel proud ur parents on u..o.k by

Answered by Varun singh , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:10 PM on June 10, 2008

1.'' there is no pleasure without pain''.
2.' no couple in this world are made for each other , the couple will survive only if they are made for each other''

Answered by Prakash H , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:40 AM on June 10, 2008

i thnk she shud do wat she wants.......n in dis case da gal is mre concerned abt her parents nd dts fair enough........

Answered by Rakhi , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:57 PM on June 09, 2008