Mani,
In most of my answers relating to this point, I wrote the same thing what you have written in your question. Many of our boys do not know what friendship is. According to that group, as they are now grown up; they want girlfriends. They do not understand that friendship is not like a cup of tea. Friendship is not so cheap that a girl would immediately respond to his call, respond to an ad like request in the form of question; ring back to a cell phone No.(which he has given in the question).
You may go through my answers where I have specifically written, what a friendship is and how a friendship between a boy and a girl grows after understanding each other. To make a friendship viable, how necessary is the confidence, security and trust between the boy and the girl.
Before making friendship with a boy, a girl wants that she must know and understand the boy first. She should be confident on him; she should feel secured with him. And finally the boy should be trustworthy.
Because, the trust is the main element, whereupon friendship and love lasts. When trust is lost; everything lost.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
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9:26 PM on August 01, 2008