This is surprising (and shocking too!) to see that a guy is waiting for someone to pick up a phone and talk for last six years! My god, this is definitely a terrible sign of your patience and perseverance. Don't you think you can use this to be a faithful partner of another girl? Think about it. The more you are dragging yourself to this lady, the more you are getting devastated.

Give some light back to your life. Move on ... and make some more friends. And in case you get someone who can lighten up your life, accept her as your life and treat her with your patience ... and this will certainly turn positive. All the very best to you in life!

Answered by Idle Mind , an ibibo Master, at 4:30 PM on October 14, 2008

Kapil, a long period of 6 years speaks your patience. But I am surprised how could you wait for the girl these long years without knowing her?
The girl is not picking up your telephone. This unusual behaviour of the girl clearly indicates that she does not have any special attraction. Her behaviour towards you is as like as a common girl; not as your girlfriend.
You love the girl so much. You feel missing her. But the girl, on the other hand as you told, avoids you. She does not have a simple sense to response. In such a situation what you do?

Look, friendship is not so simple and easy like taking a cup of tea. It is something more. Friendship means a relation between two. Both should be known intimately to each other. Both of them are with similar interests.
In true friendship, there is sharing of feelings, caring and concern, loyalty, love and confidence on each other. Therefore, a strong attachment grows between the two.
In friendship, trust is the vital element. Without trust, friendship cannot last long. When trust is lost, every thing lost.

Now you can imagine your relation with the girl, where it stands. According to me, you should not keep a relation with a girl who neglects you.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 12:30 PM on October 14, 2008

you have simply said that the girl is ignoring you,Had that girl told you that she is love with you atleast one,May be she might not be in love with you and she might have treated you as her best friend,her ignorance may be due to that reason you might have told her love aor she might have got engaged and she may want to entertain your calls anymore,this all iam telling is all the possiblities,So for your satisfaction just meet the girl in person and have a open talk with her that will help you know why she is like that,Try to have talk with her in person.all the best

Answered by Padma , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:51 AM on October 13, 2008

i agree with DJ RITZZZ, 6 years is not small time, she might be seeing another person , and its for sure she dont like you. otherwise she should give you a hint in these six yrs if she had liked u too. so just move onn...........its not any worth to wait her again.

Answered by Peace , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:56 AM on October 13, 2008

dude 6 yrs is not a small time
i suggest u to forget her nd move on in life..........

Answered by DJ RITZZZ , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:41 AM on October 13, 2008

if shes ignoring u don't ring her anymore. there is surely no future. Party with ur friends i'm sure u will surely find someone who loves u and love her in return even if u don't like her. Be with the person who loves u instead of u running behind and wasting time for the person whom u love

Answered by Rachana , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:09 PM on October 11, 2008

It is so sad that she is accepting you. She must be having other friends and therefore she ignores your call. It is approprite you stop thinking of her by keeping busy in some creative work or stuides, Yu wil get better girls who will shower you all the love and happiness you miss.

Answered by Sachin Samy , an ibibo Specialist, at 7:33 PM on October 11, 2008

i think u must know the resion why she is ignoring u.in this conditon i must say that try to talk wt the girls close friends they can only help u the most.

Answered by manoj kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:32 AM on October 11, 2008

The way she is behaving with you and not responding to your calls seema that she is not interested in you as she must be having her own Boyfriend and is happy with him. I siggest you not to waste your time after her and give trouble to yourself by thinking about her, find the another girl "who will Loves You". I am sure you will find the good girl better then then previous one who will shower her all love on you and make you forget your past.

Answered by Shrihari , an ibibo Master, at 11:40 PM on October 10, 2008